PLEASE HELP SAVE OUR MARRIAGE ?

Question

IVE BEEN MARRIED FORT 10 MTHS AND HAVENT GOTTEN PREGNANT IS THAT NORMAL

Answer 1

kids just agrivate a bad situation

they dont make it better

if you got problems now .. iwthout kids..

then dont have kids.. get out of the marriage while u can..

have kids with someone that shares your love and devotion.

Answer 2

Yes. Thank your lucky stars. Having a baby in the first few years of marriage can be a disaster. Be calm and stop focusing on it. Enjoy your partner and get to know each other more. Travel, go out to eat, go to movies, throw parties. We were married 8 years before we had our son. God will give you a child when he knows you are ready.  

Answer 3

Yes. Stop TRYING and it will probably happen, but if you think that having a baby is the only way to save your marriage, your marriage is in trouble in the first place and by having a baby BELIEVE ME  you will only add to your trouble.. Wait a while, and seek marriage guidence. If this doesn't work, you've married the wrong man. Bringing a baby into a marriage that isn't doing well to begin with will only end up in heartace. Good luck.

Answer 4

depending on age and health 90% of people get pregnant within the first year of trying.  Stress won't help you get pregnant so stop worrying about it.

In the mean time just prepare your body for the eventual pregnancy (stop smoking and drinking etc)

In my opinion, If you are under 30 years of age, I would wait until I've been trying for about 18 months before going to the doctor.  However, if you are over 30, it's better to be seen sooner rather than later so go to see the doctor in a couple of months.

And good luck, hope it goes well for you!! xx

Answer 5

When you try too hard it causes stress, and under stress many women will not conceive. My oldest son & his wife tried invitro, hormone shots & finally surgery on her tubes but no pregnancy. After they gave up, to take a break, she became sick with what they thought was flu but it was their first child. The same thing happened with their 2nd baby and she is expecting another one next month.

Give yourselves some time, relax, it will happen when you least expect it.

Answer 6

Please be sure that you are BOTH ready for a child. Yes it is normal, sometimes it takes a while to get used to each other. If you are really worried,go to your obgyn.

Answer 7

Things happen in this world that defy any normal expectations and this probably may be one. Youre probably trying way to hard and that it isnt happening is upsetting to you. Be patient and when its your time,itll happen. But yes, these things happen everyday and just about the time most people are ready to give up, the very thing they had hoped for happens. Also there may be a chance that there are medical  reasons for this not happening too. Just be patient and Mother Nature will do her thing when its time. Good luck