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quick history of my girlfriend:1) i LOVE her to death2) she is 17 (im 18)3) she attends a college about an hour away4) we have been going out for almost 4 months (used to hang out every day)HER PAST ISSUES5) 2 of he past boyfriends have cheated on her6) Worst of all she was raped when she was only 13 years old!i understand that she finds it really hard to trust guys but i am really a very nice guy, much different than all her past bfs. she even told me that she doesn't trust men and i thought that in time that she could learn to trust me to the point that she could open herself completely and let her feelings out but she seems so reserved. i used to ask her to let me in on her feelings and she just wouldn't so i just let it go. its been a a month or 2 and she still hasnt tried to talk to me. i know that it is not very healthy to keep your emotions bottled up like that and i desperately want to help. im thinking that when she told me about her rape incident that i unknowingly offended her or said something wrong, i think that whatever i have said when she told me about the rape seemed to have discouraged her to talk about it anymore. (she has not wanted to talk about it ever again) but i tried to be as supportive as possible. if you have tips for my situation or just comments please let me know. (but please keep them nice/positive if u can)Thank you all very very much. i value every ones inputBTW: if you happen to be some sort of doc. or psychiatrist then please read my other question
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