PLEASE HELP:( please?

Question

Hello , im currently 17 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years and throughout that time he never went on holiday to another country or anything and this year he said hes going to go with his family so yesterday he went and he will be back on the 18th, i miss him so much already i know hes not going for so long but i cant even explain how bad it is, i keep thinking about him and plus i use 2 always be on the phone to him llike 24/7 and now i cant talk to him while hes there. please can anyone give me advice or comfort me or anything , i really feel bad..:(.

p.s. some people might think its bad because i cant wait just a little while but its different for me and him, our parents are from different countries so they dont approve of the relationship so we have problems and we dont go same college so, whilst he was here it was hard to see him often but we wud whenever we could and i use to at least be able to hear his voice, it hurts so much.

Answer 1

Only advice is dont be so obsessive and smothering.  Its a good time for both of you to reflect on your relationship and how it is going but not a time to be sad.  He will be home before you know it.

Answer 2

you will get used to it,

Try passing your time by watching a movie or going for awalk here and there. If you keep yourself busy, you wont miss him as much.

Answer 3

if i were you i would write a letter to him. i kinda have the same problem  my bf lives 45 minutes away and my parents dont know that im goin out with him ..

Answer 4

this is good for the relationship,

incase if he has to go away again for a longer time,

you will be okay with it and be used to it.

write him notes, about how much you miss him

and can't wait to see him, then when he comes back

give them too him, or throw them out.

but im sure if he reads your notes, and see's how much

you missed him. he will make it up too you,

and maybe go buy you something :)