PLEASE HELP--women only!!

Question

soo i have been dating this guy for 9 months and we have had s*x a couple times (i have never had s*x before) . but my cherry didn't pop any of these times. and when i told one of my friends about this they said a tampon could pop it. i didn't think that was true so i asked my social worker and she said it couldn't. so i guess what i am trying to ask is should my cherry have popped, and do you always bleed when your cherry gets popped

Answer 1

Sometimes this formation of an opening does not occur and results in a hymen that lacks the more common opening. Some females have no hymen at birth at all, since the tissue divided completely while they were still in the womb. The size and shape of this opening (or openings) varies greatly from person to person.

The hymen is also not an indicator of virginity. The tissues of the v***a are generally very thin and delicate prior to puberty, so many girls and teens tear or dilate their hymen while participating in sports like bicycling, horseback riding, gymnastics or while inserting tampons. A girl may not even know this has occurred, since there may be little or no blood or pain involved when this happens. Remnants of the hymen are usually still present until a woman delivers a baby vaginally.