I have posted this over and over the past few weeks in various categories with no response. Please, someone give me honest input. Thank you!!
Okay, please tell me if any of you have ever felt this way. I am dating an Amazing guy. In fact, I know I'm going to marry this guy some day. But he has had past girlfriends and I have had no past boyfriends. So I ask him about his girlfriends all the time. I am always concerned if I'm as cute as them, as skinny as them, have a better body than them, if I'm as good as them sexually, etc. Plus, we were friends before we started dating, so we've discussed what he finds to be hot and s**y. Everything he pointed out that he loves, is the total opposite of me. Example, he said he loves goth girls, asian girls, small b***s, skinny girls, girls with pink hair, girls that are all bubbly and have a bouncy attitude, etc. Well, I am None of that. So, I wonder, how can he find all of That attractive AND me? Plus, if he Still happens to find all of that attractive, I tend to get jealous everytime we pass an Asian or goth girl, etc. Am I just being stupid or do all people go through this? I want to change myself for him, but he tells me he loves me the way I am. But how can he love me for who I am And love all of that at the same time? I love him and Only him, and he is the only man in my eyes... he claims it's the same for him, but I'm having trust issues and I DONT want to ruin this relationship... I just don't feel I can please him if I'm not his fantasy girl. I'm so afraid that I'll never be enough for him and some day down the road he'll find someone who IS all of that and leave me.
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