PLEASE PLEASE HELP!!??

Question

On Aug. 31st I had an argument with a friend. We fought about something stupid, she wanted to have a sleepover with me and my other friend Julie, only to find out she could only invite one friend. She's know me for a wicked long time and we were like BFF's and she has only known Julie for almost a year. I got mad because I was hurt that she would consider inviting someone else when I invite her to everything my family does when possible. I tried to tell her how I feel but she only hung up on me. I feel bad for her because we were really tight, but at the same time I am mad because she was mean to me. She is a really good friend and I care about her, but we just don't go together like PB + J... What should I tell her? Should I call her first? Please HELP!!!

Answer 1

It seems that she could only invite one person, and since you have been with her many many times in the past, she invited Julie, because she doesn't spend as much time with her.  Plus you were already arguing about something else.

Best friends don't always stay best friends forever, and it's natural to branch out to other people as you get older.

Don't get upset about it, just go on with your life as if nothing has happened.  It's really not that big a deal.  Let it go for now, and when you calm down some, talk to her.  Wait a bit and let everything settle down.  

It will all blow over.  Don't let yourself get so upset over it, okay?

Answer 2

wow, she;s the mean one here. she should be the one to call you.

and to me you are a really awesome friend. but you still should call her and work things out. good luck. i hope things work out between you and her. =)

Answer 3

well you should phone her back when you get the chance and ask

why did you hang up on me?

and say something like, you shouldn't treat your really good friend like this, we have been friends for like ever and i invite you to whatever i possibly can, then you chose your other friend over me, that makes me feel really bad

just stuff like that, let her know that she made you feel horrible

my friend was have a b-day sleepover, and she phoned me and said that she wasn't allowed to have a certain amount of people over, then i said so your basically telling me you don't want me to sleepover, i knew you would say something like this blah blah blah, why don't you un invite emily (not her real name) she invited herself anyway.

then i found out that emily was really the one who didn't want me to sleepover, but everything turn out okay and i ended up sleeping over.

:p  

Answer 4

your right that is a really dumb thing to fight about. in my opinion you should just call her and talk it out. its better to have a go at fixing it then just letting it ruin your friendship with your best gal!

try explaining to her that if you invite a lot of people then it would be harder to talk about your feelings.

hope this works! =D