PLEASE andswer this!! How do I get him back?

Question

met this guy in May but I wasn't that into him so when he asked me out 3 times I turned him down. I got to know him and felt some love for him.

We just stopped seeing each other after one night of trying to go "all the way". There was no reason for it either because we still spoke on IM as normal, but my friend asked him and his friend to come out and meet us once and they stood us up and we sent them texts coz we were pissed off.

We sorted that out but we stopped talking for about 2 weeks. I miss him SOOOOOOOO much. He would do anything for me. He walked all the way to mine just to see me (from his) which is quite far on foot and he'd carry my bags and stuff. He used to kiss me on the cheek all the time and squeeze me close to him when I wouldn't kiss him and stuff and I miss that and just being in his arms. (We acted like we were a couple when we were together but we never actually went out).

Anyways I decided to talk to him first today after not talking for 10 days(I don't usually talk first) and its just soo strange talking to him! Its like we talk as if nothing happened between us and he doesn't call me s**y or babe anymore =[ ..I want to ask him to come out but

1. Im not sure whether hes back with his ex

2. I dont know if we will be weird with each other like we are on IM

3. I just dont know if hes 'into me' anymore

..Should I see if he talks to me first tommorow and if he does then ask him out if he doesnt move on?

Answer 1

Move on he doesn't want you as a girlfriend.

Answer 2

Honey, if he wanted to talk to you, he would.  He's just not that into you so move on.

Answer 3

I think you should write down your feelings and get it all organized and notebook paper and call him on the phone and read what you have written. Because if you just think and don't write it down you forget and mess up.  

Answer 4

Move on, he's obviously not interested. Move on, that will show him!

Answer 5

Just ask him....

tell him like whats going on do you wanna chill like the other day???

thats my only advice...

although, i think you should move on after a week or so

Answer 6

i don't think your gonna get him back...

sorry

Answer 7

ya every1s answer is 2 forget about him and move on, but when your in love u dont want 2 hear dat. am i the only 1 in the world who believes in love and fighting for what u want??, its highly insulting when your in love with a guy and other people say stuff like 'cop-on, forget about him, you'll find sum1 better', all dis stuff, when u feel it, u feel it, and u shouldnt let it go that easily. s***w every1 else, make yourself happy, and he hasnt forgotten or ignored cos he thinks about the relationship a lot 2 its just men cant translate their feelings but he does miss the relationship, if u felt love and care from him when u were together then he obviously misses u he just wont say it, men r stubborn like that. i'm in the exact same boat, but i'm not gonna give up, u can not throw love away like that cos it dosent happen often. dont give up, preservere, i know its hard waiting 4 him 2 text r call just wait and c. he mite give up his male ego for 5 minutes and decide he wants u. so dont bale out just yet ok!!!!!!!!!!!! and dont just let the deadline b 2moro, if u love him, love him, give him time.

Answer 8

Hmmm, to be honest it kinda sounds like he's 'just not that into you' (sorry for quoting that from s*x and They City there lol)

But it sounds like you ain't ready to give up hope, chances are as it hasn't bin all that long since you 2 were chatting normally and stuff that he still might have feelings for ya, but just not as strong as before.

I can't really say what i'd do in the situation, but i hope i wouldn't give up tryin! What harm will it do? And you'll always regret it if you don't try.

So talk to him tomorrow if he don't talk first, try and see if u can find out from friends and stuff if he's back with his ex (maybe get your mate to talk to his? sumot like that anyway) and just ask him to come out anyway? probs not just you two, have another couple of mates there with you and whatever, then just see where it goes from there?

Maybe you should just talk a bit more (for a few days maybe) on IM before you see him again, so it's not that weird? as you haven't seen him in a while.

Anyway, not sure if any of that will help :S but good luck.

Answer 9

I think that you should just move on.

Based on what you wrote, he does not seem like he is really that interested in you anymore..

If he wanted to talk to you, then 10 days would not have passed since the last time you two communicated.

Just move on and concentrate on other things like school..

And in the future, you will find someone else who is just as sweet as he once was to you..