PLEASE help! 4 year old niece EMERGENCY!?

Question

My 4 year old neice is the sweetest girl you'll ever meet.But when i was playing candy land with her,she said "audra lets have boyfriend & girlfriend s*x" and i was shocked to tears.I asked her what they do and she said they get on top of eachother and kiss and l**k eachother.She said she saw it on TV.I really think i need to talk to her,What should i say and if she says it again what should I do?

Answer 1

Bring it to her parents attention- obviously someone is not being careful of what is on TV while the 4 year old is around.  it is a scary thing

Answer 2

Talk to her and explain that s*x is something that adults do and why. Does she think kissing and l*****g is all there is to s*x? 4 years old is not too old for the s*x talk.

Answer 3

Alright well since her dad is in lockdown and her mom apparently doesn't give a rats *** what she watches, tell her it's not okay to do this stuff and it's for grown ups only. She'll probably forget about it sooner or later and move on. GOod luck, kids are crazy at that age.

Answer 4

well you need to make sure you respond to her on a four year old level. make sure you say something she will understand. If it were me i would just tell her that that is somethings only mommies and daddies do to show how much they love eachother and leave it at that

Answer 5

talk to her parents

Answer 6

Then she won't need a s*x talk I guess...?

Answer 7

dont talk to her bout it her rents will be pissed at you tell her parents what she said so they can deal with it and explain it to her how they like and think is appropriate

Answer 8

First thing is to talk to her parents and let them know. It is best handled by them. It is very important that you do this, because if she says mentions "boyfriend and girlfriend s*x" to someone like day care provider, doctor, etc. everyone around her will become suspect, and their first thought will not be that she saw it on tv.

Answer 9

Well try telling this to your mom and let her handle it. and if she saids it again just ignore her.

Answer 10

She is not your child.  You do NOT talk to the child, you talk to the mother.  It is the mother's job to monitor what HER child views on teleivsion not YOUR job.  It is the mother's job to raise her child, not your's.

Answer 11

Speak to your sister and tell her that you are worried that your neice could speak about such things at nursery - which they will obviously ask her mother in to explain further!!

Aside from the above - tell her how horrified you and us were to hear of such a young girl knowing to much information!

too much knowlege is really a dangerous thing for small children!

Answer 12

You tell her parents.

Answer 13

i don't think it matters, just don't encourage it and she will get over it. maybe tell the mother though...

Answer 14

u need to talk to her parents !

Answer 15

PLZ PLZ READ THIS AND IT MAY GIVE U AN IDEA WAT     2     DO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...       you need to get child block and say that is she ever watches stuff like that she will be tooken away and will not be able to see anyone ever that she loves family wise with is true in a way if stuff goes wrong in the future she may also land in the slammer and talk to her parents and if it gets really serious get the police and adopt her but you know she should be scared because this kis SOOOOOOOOOOOOO not good

Answer 16

I would tell her mum what she said. And if she says it again, I would remind her that "boyfriend and girlfriend s*x" is something that only adults do, children are too little.

Answer 17

I think you should just tell her parents! Let them deal with this!

Answer 18

first of all this is AGE APROPRIATE!! dont panic!!!!! 4-6 year olds start getting curious about s*x-that is why children play "doctor" and also show eachother their private parts....

i would just tell her parents what came up- and tell them that it is time to buy her an age apropriate book on her body and why boys and girls are this way.  and what is appropriate to her!!!

dont feel like you did any thing wrong cause you did not!!!

my 6 year old son (he is in kindergarden) was as school and was talking to other girls about their privates-- and then they talked about showing them-- the teacher over heard and we ended up having to pick him up and have the s*x talk...  but its nothing to punish a child for!!!

good luck

Answer 19

You need to talk to your sister. If you don't, nothing will happen and it will keep getting worse. You should also ask what she watches specifically.

Answer 20

i think she has hurd that other than just one time on tv. the only thing you can do is when it comes up again make sure you tell her no no no thats not something little girls are suposed to talk about, and if she has other quetions for you, you should tell her mom and as much as you can help you sister not to let she see or here things like that... she could get in big rouble in school talking about stuff like that .

Answer 21

Let her parents know what she said.  And if she says it again, tell her that is something that only grown up people do when they feel very special about each other, and tell her what she saw on TV wasn't real, it was just pretend anyway.