PLEASE help Female has'nt ever had an o****m during s*x?

Question

Im a 37 yr old female and the only way I have an o****m is if I do myself by placing something balled up under me and rubbing up against it. This has never been a problem for me. My last 3 relationships never ? or asked now Ive met a guy who wants me to be happy know he is satisfying me. Im not comfortable enough to tell him. s*x has always been about the closeness and bonding for me I figure Ill do myself later. I dont want to lose him over this. Any suggestions or know of any meds to help???????????? Please

Answer 1

You need to be more concentrate in order to get the wave coming. Sometimes try a different position will help like you on top of him and in a control position.

Answer 2

Tell him that only one-third of women can have an o****m during intercourse, and you're not one of them.  In other words, most people don't have an o****m without some kind of clitoral stimulation.

If he breaks up with you over something like that, he's worthless anyway.

Answer 3

If you are not comfortable with talking about this with him,then you should not be having s*x with him.Throughout intercourse you should be communicating with him,telling him what you like and what you don't.If he knows,he can better satisfy your needs and you will better satisfy his.If you aren't enjoying something,he needs to know so that he can get creative and come up with something that will possibly satisfy you.Never be afraid to talk to him about it.m********e,if you have to purchase a vibrator or something else to aide you in achieving an o****m.Explore your body and figure out what feels good for you and what doesn't.After you get an idea as to what you like and what you don't,m********e for him....then allow him to join in and show him what works and what don't.Then when having intercourse he can throw in some of the things you enjoyed that helped your achieve an o****m with masturbation into the intercourse.Both partners should be satisfied,and if you aren't,then change it up a bit.

Answer 4

i'm the same way.. i have never had one until my boyfriend and i got together.. while he is in you why don't you tell him to rub on you.. have him on top or doggy style.. that seems to help me reach my highest potential and i was the same way.. nothing could do it except for myself but since you know what pleases you show him..

Answer 5

There are certain meds you can get to help with s*x drive, but I'm not sure if they actually help o****m or just increase the overall feeling of pleasure.

I am just like you, but there are certain positions where you can be having s*x and clitoral stimulation, and that has finally worked for me.  I'd experiment a little.  They might not be his favorite, but it sounds like you were lucky to find a guy that wants to make you feel good!!

Answer 6

Some women do have a harder time orgasming than others.  I had a few partners and never once felt anything, so s*x became a chore and not a want.  Then I met my current guy and it seems just right.  The way that I always have one is by doing it from behind or on the edge of the bed.  While you are having s*x your man can rub your C**t and that helps alot as well.  If you think that s*x is supposed to be a bonding/closeness thing, then you should be able to openly talk about different things he can do.  Try using a s*x toy before intercourse.  That will get you extra aroused and get the blood flowing.  Also, have him roll something on your C**t to get him to get you off.  I know that its weird and strange to have someone else do it for you, but its truly an amazing thing when you two can share the experience of climaxing at the sametime.

Answer 7

how big has ur boyfriends p***s's been?

i get a feeling theres not much there to pleassure u from him