PLEASE help is this messed up or wat?

Question

ok the first guy i really really liked alot went to jail nd i am still hung over him like alot. its been a year nd i still like him he was the 1st guy i ever even cried 4 but then after that i been trying to focus my attention on other guys to get over him which i havnt nd they all gone to jail 2 how wierd is that like 6 in one year nd those r the only ones that i liked or at least tryed to even the ones that ask me out on dates 2 they all gone to jail all i aint playing no joke just recently this guy started talking to me at peter piper nd asked 4 my number nd bam a cop came up to us nd said come on son lets go nd took him wtf was that. it sucked y is this happening is that maybe a way god is trying to tell me to wait 4 him to get out of jail or do i just pick the wrong ones but i think he might be my 1st love but isnt that messed up? but thats alot i havnt had a chance with no one else p.s the 1st guy isnt gangster or anything he did wat he had to do for his family

Answer 1

Ok so i think you must pick the bad boys if they are all going to jail.  As for waiting for him, well, if he's in prison now, do you think it's a possibility that he will be sent down again in the future?? What kind of a life is that always waiting for your man to come out of prison.

I think what you need to do is take some time for yourself and stop going after men.  Then when you've totally got over this man in prison, you will be ready for someone else and hopefully he wont be too much of a bad boy.