PLEASE help?WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT marriege for my age?

Question

IS IT THE RIGHT THING OR WILL I REGRET!

please help me with your opinions please!

ALSO I'M 18 YEARS OLD IMA GRADUATE AND MY BOYFRIEND IS SOON TO GRADUATE AND IS ALSO 18

HE WANTS TO GET MARRIED AND HE WANTS ME TO MOVE TO TEXAS WITH HIM HE WANTS TO DO FOOTBALL ALSO ILL JUS GO TO COLLEGE ANY WHERE REALLY DONT MATTER TO !

BUT THIS IS THE thing i'm military well my dads in it and for most of my life ive been away from my family! and the thought of me just moving jus straight with him jus makes me sad cuz my grandmothers gettin old and i dont wanna loose her! so me gettin marriied at 18 a good thing or bad!

YES I DO LOVE HIM YES IM IN LOVE AND YES I KNOW WHAT LOVE IS! IVE BEEN WITH HIM FOR ALMOST A YEAR AND JUS THE THOGHT OF SPENDING THE REST OF MY LIFE FEELS SO RIGHT!

PLEASE HELP WITH SOME OF YOUR OPINIONS!

THANKS!

[♥]SOON TO BE MRS.[♥]

Answer 1

I think in your heart you know the right answer you just don't want to admit it because it is hard to admit. True love and marriage can wait. Your grandmother will not be with you forever. If I could see my grandad for just a minute more I would give up getting married and moving away. I hope this helps.

Answer 2

Look I got married at 18 and i was in love i regret it now so i would wait a couple of years just to mature you don't know what you will be like in 4 years. I feel like a completely different person than i was 4 years ago.

Answer 3

Bad idea. You won't go to college "any where" with your language skills. Work on your education before you think about marriage.  

Answer 4

I married my 1st husband at 18. What a mistake. I was way too young and so was he. Neither one of us had the wisdom or experience to know what to expect. It's a lot of hard work, actually more work than play. But only if you want it to last.

Answer 5

wait til after college

Answer 6

i feel that u should wait a couple of more years. explain to him that u love him and that u want to be with but just not so soon set a date for marriage or ask him to give u a promise ring just so that it will make him feel special and connected with u.

Answer 7

If he is doing football, your marriage will be in serious jeopardy, because the college girls with big b***s all decked out will entice him away from you...plain and simple. Sorcery to ruin Tory idea but it is best for you to have education and a career here, and if in 4 years he wants to get together again, it will make More sense.

At 18, things look very Rose, but living in poverty is no way to live. And jobs there are scarce.

Stay and if it is meant to be, so be it. Also, you have discovered a wonderful part of yourself, but the limning for a mature and RESPONSIBLE marriage has yet to arrive.

Answer 8

NO.. There's no way you should be getting married at 18 to someone you've been with for under a year. Goodness!  You're still young and have lots to do and accomplish in your life and you shouldn't be settling down at that age.  Go to college, and then if you're still in love with him, marry him.

Marriage is a lot of work, not like playing "house" when you were six.

Answer 9

I agree with Alyssa

Answer 10

18 is too young . get your life going and make something good of yourself and have fun too,, your just 18

Answer 11

instead of concentrating on getting married, u should take some grammar and spelling lessons

Answer 12

It's pretty sad when you can't even spell the word but you want to perform the action.  Tell you what: Take a year of solid English and Grammar courses at a local college, broaden your horizons a bit and then see how hot to trot you feel.  Trust me, just because you've been together for a year doesn't mean you "know what love is".  Have three kids, no money and mortgage payments falling behind and then tell us that this 'feels so right'.

(I'd change the SOON TO BE MRS. to SOON TO BE DIVORCED)