PLEASEEEEEEE HELPPPPPPP!! omgg!

Question

my ex boyfriend want's to kill his self, because he think's no one care's about him, wich i do. omg, please tell me a way to stop him?! i've told him everything, &nd i give AMAZING advice and stuff, but he isn't listing, btw he is bi-polar like me:[[ i don't want to call the police or anything, so stop giving me that. &nd i cant talk to his parent's.

Answer 1

it all depands on your ex frnd,don't worry be happy ,plz don't worry ....

Answer 2

First of all, if he really wanted to die, he probably wouldn't be telling you.  Secondly, there's nothing you can do short of calling someone.

Now, I know you don't want to hear it but he needs help and he needs the kind of help you can't give him.   You are not capable of helping him!  Call someone before he does something really stupid!

Answer 3

Do you think this is a ploy on his part to get you back?  Is he staying on his meds?

You're asking for a way to stop him, but ruling out the best way to get him help!!  Get real, you can't fix him and you probably already know that, but don't want to accept it.

If you can't talk to his parents, write them a letter or tell it to their minister or someone else who can talk to them for you.  Police won't help unless he's on a ledge somewhere.

If you really believe him and if you really want to help him, telling others who care about him that he needs help is the only thing you can do -- and can you live with yourself if something happens and you've kept your mouth shut?

Answer 4

1 800 suicide is the est quickest place to call for help.    

If you think he is serious call 911 he may get PO'd but he will be alive to be PO'd      

Some guys do the I'll kill myself as away of controlling others especially x GF and sometimes end uphurting the GF so please do not be alone with him.

Answer 5

The best thing is to call the police. I know that sounds harsh. But they can help him to get help. My ex did that and I called the police. He said I saved his life. I was afraid and didn't know what to do. He pulled up in my yard and put a shotgun under his chin.But the police came and talked him into going into the hospital. That was the best thing to do.

If you don't want to do that. Take him to the nearest E.R. They can get him in touch with a counselor. Some people do that for attention. But you should not take a threat of suicide lightly.  

Answer 6

Well if you can't call the police, and you can't tell his parents, than I'm afraid you've reached a dead end. Nobody who wants to commit suicide is going to listen to reason. I'm afraid you can't do anything about it, if you don't want to involve the police, his parents,  or a suicide hotline.  

Answer 7

Well maybe if you call the police then this would never happen again?

Do you really want to live the rest of your life with a person thats always to negative and will always just bring you down?

My ex used to be this way, I couldnt handle it, its emotionally draining.