PLZ HELP--HOW DO I TREAT MY GIRLFRIEND RIGHT??

Question

ok a while back she had some family problems and by the way i acted she feels like now i dont care about her and that i dont love her anymore but i do.....i have been with her for about 1year and almost a half.......im not sure but maybe i am getting used to her or forgetting to be romantic or something....i try to impress her by getting her a card and flowers and telling her i love her but she doesnt believe me.....i want her to believe me but its hard when anything i do makes her not believe me.....when i ask her if she loves me she says she does.....and the other day she said i dont treat her right....please anyone help...i would really aprreciate it since i want to stay in this relationship with her and i really want this to last i want my love to be better than it used to be i just dont know how???

Answer 1

Take her out for a meal and ask her exactly what she wants from a relationship then listen. She needs to see your commitment, not hear about it. If she sees that you are acting to make the relationship stronger she may begin to trust you; if she doesn't she is too hurt to forgive you and you should move on.