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PLZ HELP!!! idk what to do

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ok so i no i already posted this before but idk what to do! Ok tonight i found out that a what i thought good friendhas been using me and i have been letting her walk all over me but idk what to do that any more! but what im asking is what do i do? i mean im being and was being used and walked all over what would u do?

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I would quit being her friend, she's obviously not there for the relationship, just the props.

Sorry this happened!
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If someone is being like that..then stop the friendship..they're not worth it.
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Don't talk to her she get the picture sooner or later

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Tell her off!!!! If she was a friend she wouldn't be doing that. She only uses you to make you look like a servant.
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just tell her u dont like being used and that its not right. U could also ask her y she used in such a way to make u fell like u do now. good luck with that and could u plz answer mine.
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Tell the b*tch off!

Don't ever let anyone use you or walk all over you!

Stand up for yourself. Know that you deserve better.

Tell the chick what you think and how you feel, then go find you some better friends. Some friends who will treat you how you deserve to be treated. Not treat you like c**p. :(
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stand up to her say no and walk off she tries and come back say no and walk off again..

I had the same issue.

You don't need someone to take advantage of you over and over take them out of your life and say no to them, there are a lot better people out there anyways =D
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You don't need friends like that, if people dont like you for who you are and are using you for their benefit then you don't have to associate with them.Wouldn't you rather be hated for what & who you are than liked for someone you're not. So drop her. Duh! She's just wasting your time and your letting her get in the way of happiness and letting her get in your head. And how do I know this? because your sweating it so much your posting questions about it on y!a. You are not REQUIRED to be her friend and let her walk over you and she not REQUIRED to like you if you stand up to her and tell her you're not taking it{And you shouldn't care if she doesn't like you}. Thats what I would do.
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aww miley, I rem your q about this. Sad to say girl, but real friends don't do that to you. It hurts , and it's going to hurt a while, but it's time to walk away, befoe it hurts even worse. Have a good cry, and let all the pain out. I know how it hurts, but this just shows the ture colors of your friend. I'm sorry that you have to go through this hun.. been there too.
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Well now that you have realized it, act on it! Let them know how you feel and that you won't stand for it anymore. They are obviously not a real friend to you. Be firm about how you feel too. Don't let them bully you. The Bible says the ritious are like lions. (I don't know if your christain but this still helps me to be bold) Be feirce about it. You are worth more than that.
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You have to confront her but not to start a fight. Tell her that you know she's using you and tell her that you're really upset about it. Just let her know everything and say exactly what you feel. You should lose her as a "friend" because who needs someone who's just using you?
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