PLZZ HELP MEEEE..awkward situation..best answer gets 10 points?

Question

I was doing my engineering..but i dropped out of college after a year..now i wake up daily @ around 12 or 1 p.m and will have much straight and will be browsing net for the whole noon till evening..then i'll have some snack..watch some t.v and then I'll hear some songs and will again get into net and will be browsing till midnight and will take dinner,watch a movie in system and will go to sleep and it goes on the same routine next day..i dunno why I am being like this..whats wrong with me..and I am parents dont even care a d**n about me..I dropped out of my college as I had interest towrads film and not studies...i must get into an another town to join in film as an apperentice and work my way up and thats my wish..I knew thats what I should do and thats why I dropped out of college..but now,I am just not able to give up this daily routine and laziness..I dunno if that much of laziness and uninterest has come into me so much that am not able to move with life..I fear of my future and I am 19 years old..I feel helpless..I've stopped talking with my friends too..what exactly is my problem?what should I do?

PLZ HELPPPPPPPPPPPPP

Answer 1

Whoa...for how long ru planning to be like this coz no one s gonna pay for ur living hereafter. Laziness is normal but not to an extent u dont do anything at all(snacking/net/tv/games r NOT work..k.. Wud have been awesome if u finish ur studies then get into whatever u want so it will be a back up.

Looks like uv forgotten the reason for living. So wht if parents dont care? U shud care for urself and achieve something in life on ur own. Believe me ur at the best age of ur life now if u waste it ur gonna regret later..journey of 1000 miles starts from here..but if u just sit nothings gonna happen...i'm sure u know all this tht s why u wanna find solution rite...so let me tell u. Mind is a powerful tool. U have to train it to work according to how u want.

First. Plan. Decide wht u really want and passionate about(even if its longest way to go). U shud have a burning desire to achieve ur dreams buddy. Secondly plan ur stratergy. How ur gonna go about it. Thirdly motivate urself. Ask urself u wanna grab opportunity or let it pass ur hobbies which u can do anytime. Net,eating,tv etc u have lifetime to do tht but once u miss ur chances in securing ur position in life its hard.

No one s gonna respect u if u dont have self respect and do something for urself alrite. ppl can open the door but u have to enter. Everyone will tell u including me..i wish i'm 19 again i wud have done so much more than i did back then. Time is precious. U ll NEVER get it back. So plz...dont be a waste by wasting ur time. Feeling helpless is just gonna delay ur step fwd. Only when u have the will u ll find the way. When u giv up on ur future no one can pull u fwd unless u wake up this moment and fight ur way thru. Ur prob is obviously laziness which leads to disinterest NOT coz u dont have chance or not capable. Only fools find excuses. Smart ppl wud hav think of sumthin by now.

Knock ur head thrice and wake up. Time s running..u better hurry and catch up. U CAN

Answer 2

Well you mentioned that your parents dont seem to care which is interesting. Obviously you need them to care about u in order for you to care about yourself....stop being lazy, just STOP, get up, write down some goals and accomplish them....dont worry about mommy and daddy, your 19 your an adult do something about YOUR life...sounds like your having trouble transitioning into a real mature adult.....dont base your worthiness off of what ur parents do for you....life isnt easy and if you keep taking this easy route your gonna s***w up your future, stop being a loser.

Answer 3

I know u r probably feeling low and very depressed and so u have got into such a routine. First things first...get rid of all of these 'routine' habits. If you cannot help browsing the net, get ur net connection cancelled; unplug ur PC and then put away ur allowance, if any, either in a bank or return it 2 ur parents so that you cannot go to browse net in a cafe.

Next, make realistic resolutions. Get up in the morning by setting a real shrill alarm clock and putting it far away from ur bed.(so that you have to really get UP).  

Go for a jog or cycle or swim in the morning, any activity that you enjoy.

Cancel subscriptions of all magazines...u'll get bored and then start studying...very soon u'll get an interest in what u r studying. Once u get good marks ur parents will begin to appreciate and care.

I know its easy to preach and difficult to practise...but you can pray daily to get inner strength.

Try these and get in great form. All the best....

Answer 4

you sound like your depressed. You should probably seek some help about that.  

Answer 5

Sounds like you're depressed.  Parents probably pick up the vibe.  Get your buttocks out of bed, and do one thing that advances your goals, even if it's making cold calls.  Don't surf the net until you do 1 - 2 things that help you advance your goals.  Get some focus and move forward.

Answer 6

you are bored because you have no direction most young men your age go through this it is a phase but if it concerns you get some people together and take a road trip preferably a few cute girls to peak your interest when My nephew got that way he did all sorts of stuff to break out of the rut he participated in recreations of the civil war took up parachuting he met some interesting people me well I got on a Renaissance trip where everyone took on characters it was a hoot and I met some pretty hot guys as far as direction live love laugh take a laptop along but for Gods sake pick up your but and do it only you can

Answer 7

Living a sedentary lifestyle, sitting in front of your computer all day, can really depress a person quickly.  Break the habit.  Start by exercising - go swimming, cycling to the gym, for a powerwalk.  It releases endorphins into your brain, which give you a feeling of personal well being.  Make a personal To Do list each day and target film companies to offer your services free of charge to for work experience - one thing can very easily lead to another.  When your parents see that you are making an effort they will start taking an interest in you again.  I know you are miserable with your life at the moment but you can't expect anyone to be interested in your life if you aren't interested yourself.