Pain during beginning of s*x?

Question

It hurts a lot during the first...ten minutes? of s*x. After a little bit, it's worked in and everything is totally fine. I've been sexually active for a while, why would this be?

Answer 1

More foreplay is required.

Answer 2

only one answer this g*y don't  now how caress and prepare you then you get the simple naturally slime

Answer 3

I'm the same way. Sometimes it is a lack of lubrication, sometimes it is just you are not completely ready to begin s*x, you need to be more into it to open up more. There is a possibility that you could have a medical problem, like cysts or polyps or something, but with me, I just have to spend some time working out that tightness. Go slow til you're ready. And don't be ashamed to add lots of lube. Astroglide works wonders:)

Answer 4

Use more lube

Answer 5

Its just cos ur tight.use more lube and make sure your wet

Answer 6

If you’re experiencing pain during or after s*x there may be several factors that are contributing to the pain you feel. For women there are a number of physical conditions that may make s*x hurt, including:

* Pelvic Inflammatory Disease

* Endometriosis

* Ovarian cysts

* Interstitial cystitis

* Vaginismus

* Vulvodynia

* Some sexually transmitted diseases

* Urinary infections

* Yeast infections

* Vaginal dryness

* Physical injury and chronic pain

I would recommend that if you experience pain during or after s*x that you consult with your doctor/gynaecologist for further evaluation and to rule out any serious causes.

Good luck :)

Answer 7

you are not lubing your O-ring enough.

Answer 8

you got to get your p***y and his d**k red

Answer 9

There appears to be some chronic inflammation at the vaginal out let. You may please get yourself checked up by your gynaecologist for ascertaining the cause of your dyspareunia.

Answer 10

Ten minutes is a very long time. Most likely you are too dry. You need to be lubricated before s*x.

Here's what you should do... engage in as much foreplay as you can, with your partner doing his best to arouse you and get you in the mood. This also gets the natural lubricants flowing.

Make sure you use a lubricant, preferably water based, not petroleum based, like K-Y.

Relax, and take it slow. You'll enjoy it.

Answer 11

You aren't lubricated enough.  If it's too dry down there, the friction will cause discomfort and maybe even a burning pain if it hurts for too. long.  Another thing is that maybe the end/bottom of the condom is pinching you?  I've experienced that before, all you can really do is have the guy pull it down as far as he can (safely).

Otherwise, if that's not the problem, then the guy just has a realllllly big wang that is so big that it hurts you heehe...

I don't know, how I helped or at least made you giggle.

Answer 12

I have this problem. It could be one of many, many things, which is the downside.

First and foremost, always make sure that you are well lubricated and aroused, as undoubtedly causes introitus pain upon commencement of intercourse.

Secondly, have him go really slow and slowly work it in to gently stretch the introitus.

Third, you might want to go speak with your OB/GYN and discuss the possbility of vestibulitis (which I have--this is inflammation of the vestibule, which surrounds the opening of the v****a). This can get inflamed at times and cause dyspareunia.  

Answer 13

because you touch yourself at night jkjk start using more lube

Answer 14

You don't lubricate fast enough.  You need more foreplay, have your guy go down on you first for a while

Answer 15

Maybe your very small or tight down there and he has a big c**k?  I have been married 4 years and I am well endowed.  My wife is petite and she still has pain.  I use a lot of lube and sometimes have to add more.  Than after a while, the pain passes but she still has occasional pain afterwards as well.  It's all normal for her!  I can tell you one thing if I didnt start off using lube, she would be screaming.  he must use lube, spread it around his p***s and up and down your area as well and maybe even a little inside.  This should help ease it in more painlessly.

Answer 16

v****a penetration , and at 1st 10 minutes , there are not enough lubricant produced by male and female and the friction causes pain.

Answer 17

Maybe you're not wet enough.

Always make sure to be naturally lubrificated before intercourse.

Answer 18

I have the same problem! What worked for me was using loads of KY and taking a few deep breaths every now and then :) I also went to my gynae and he told me that I had a retroverted uterus - it is tilted backwards, so it is important to choose the correct s*x positions. Maybe you must make an appointment just to check if you don't have any medical reasons for your discomfort? And try different positions?

Good luck!!

Answer 19

my wife had this problem and still dose. its were the Walls of the v****a  are so close together that you cant have s*x. or use female products.  Its a medical condition.  

Answer 20

get wet 1st

Answer 21

Your still tight and your not lubricating enough. Foreplay before is a good idea.

Answer 22

Use more lube. I use to be like that bad! But lube helped. and more foreplay. Now I am good. Sometime it hurts at first anyway, and slowly goes away. Too tight i guess! hah!

Answer 23

are u wet enough? it could be ur not well lubricated hence the pain.. or u have a sensitive cervix (which in certain positions puts more pressure on it causing pain..)

they're just a couple things to consider. otherwise, u could be sleeping with someone whos too, how shall we say, "big" for u. if none of these things make sense- go to the dr.. theres no sense in u not enjoying the best thing EVER if it can be fixed. plus ur health should come first.. i say when in doubt- see ur dr! it could be an infection..