Pain while having s*x?

Question

My wife is too afraid to ask so I'm asking for her.

s*x has been painful in the past for her, like the last 5 years. Recently we found out that she has HPV and it can cause pain while having s*x. Now the birth control she is on now is helping with the pain greatly, but shes afraid to sleep with me because of the past pain. So what we would like to know, are there any precautions we can take to make s*x pleasurable for her again? Or anything that may make it feel better even if its only temporary? Any woman with HPV and pain responding will be greatly appreciated.

Answer 1

I don't have HPV but I have dealt with pain during s*x. The important thing for me is to take it slow. My husband is totally understanding and it sounds like you are too and that's very good. Try using KY jelly. I've found that any lube that is thinner burns a little. The thicker stuff like jelly is better. Being on top works better for me because I can control the speed and depth. This part is for your wife have her read this. Your husband is obviously a very loving person and cares about your feelings both physically and emotionally. Try to have s*x for him. Think about how much you love him and want to make him feel good. Kiss and whatever you like to do for as long as it takes for you to feel ready. If you feel to afraid then just give him a ******** and try again later. It's important for both of you that you not force it. If she feels it's not going to work then it's most likely not going to. I hope that helps.

Answer 2

I was having pain also during intercourse and my gynecologist had offered a shot into my cervix, she said it could "possibly" have a side effect of no o****m but if she enjoys the closeness with you it wont matter..

I did have a hysterectomy and had some scar tissue develop and she gave me the shot and it did not hinder my orgasms at all...I did have the scar tissue removed with another surgery but the shot was worth it for the time it worked (about a month)

check with her gyno about this

Answer 3

This might sound freaky but try using toys. At first to see how it feels. For her gradually do it. Fore play is amazing. I believe anything to get you excited about s*x. Try to look up some thing into how to make her feel comfortable. In doing certain things. Then work your way into that special area if she allows you too. So its a gradual step instead of forcing it in there and have at it because she proble feels bad and like a tease if she doesn't give it to you. So try foreplay.