Paranoia, scared, or what?

Question

I've only had 3bfs, and now i'm 'totally' single, lol! When guys ask me why, I say i don't know... but when they wanna be my bf, I tell em' no, or that i'll think about it... and never get back 2 it... I've always told myself that i have commitment problems... but i'm not so sure any more; I'm a little self-conscious... okay, alot; But people tell me i'm pretty all of the time. I think I'm paranoid... Can anyone help? Please...?

Answer 1

Hi Melodie,

You are being asked by guys which means you are so pretty. Did someone, in one of the 3bfs u had brainwash u saying you are ugly ? Well thats wrong, if any one did. Because no one would ask u anyway if u werent pretty. Get your confidence back and your pretty, yes ur paranoid thats all. get over it.,

Answer 2

Maybe you feel like you don't need to be commited? If you're happier single then when the time comes to be in a relationship you will!!

Answer 3

truley think about what you are paranoid about.most girls with this problems put lies into their heads forcing theirselves to think bullshhyytt is true.and for being self concious i stop being that at a very young age....when i was..13 actually.i had a strong kind mind,intellegent enough to know that no 1 in this world is better or less then me and god sees me perfect in his eyes regardless of my faults.whats the reason of being self concious of the people who are nothing more or less then you.

and trust me you dong need some guy to make you happy.present yourself and be a strong,independent women who respects herself

Answer 4

Maybe you just aren't ready to trust a guy that much yet. That's OK, you will learn to get over that.

Or perhaps you are just enjoying being single so much that you don't want a bF??!!!

Or MAYBE you are a L*****n?

Answer 5

I don't think You're Paranoid... More likely- you're just not ready for a long term, committed Relationship yet. There's nothing wrong with that ! When the Right Time (& the Right Person) comes along- you'll "get back 2 it..."- You'll see!  Til THEN; ignore what Others Say, get ON with you Life, - and Enjoy the "Ride"!  :)