Paranoid around my boyfriend....?

Question

i used to be a little paranoid but its gotten alot worse and i dont know why. like today he pinned me down so i couldnt move my arms and i like started shaking and close to crying [i couldnt control it]. he keeps saying im full of s**+* and i can control it but i dont know what to do.... and its only around him-- im better around other people but its really bad with him. should i make an appointment to see my psychiatrist about this? or do you think it might go away eventually?

Answer 1

Why is he pinning you down, that is the only part of that WHOLE paragraph that sounded f***ed up to me..  

Answer 2

id break up with him. if he is doing that it isnt your being paranoid that is the problem...

Answer 3

well wtf is he pinning you down for?? wtf? that shouldnt happem.

i know tho that if me and my bf are playing around like wrestling and he pins me down where i couldnt move i used to get uncomfortable. but when i told him he completely understood and quit. see i have this fear of rape thing but it was every time i coultnd move my arms no matter who or what was stopping me.

it sounds that you arent very trusting of this guy and that is not a good sign. your fears are completely justified and he should be way more sensitive to them. thats another bad sign.

there is nothing wrong with you and i think that you should maybe look deeper into who this guy is.

Answer 4

why the c**p was he pinning you down!  That would make me shake and cry too

Answer 5

Well, why is he pinning you down and swearing at you?

Dump him, you aren't safe around him.  

Answer 6

i would say see your psychiatrist.

If you dont feel safe around him, leave him.. there is probably a reason you dont feel safe. ( pinning your arms down and restraining you dosent sound playful to me)  

and then you start crying and he said you were full of sh*it, i dont know but i dont think that sounds very understandding and sympathetic.

mabey your psychatrist will have good advice.  Hope i helped. good luck:) .  

Answer 7

wow, he sounds like such a sensitive sweetheart..not

why was he pinning you down in the first place?

i mean, i think it's normal to be a bit paranoid, at the

beginning of any relationship,

but it really depends on what your paranoid about when you're

around him, and how long you guys have been going out.

if you've been together awhile, it's not normal

& you should probably break it off with him.

Answer 8

for a start your boyfriend should be supportive of you and not say your full of

s**+* and if he was holding you down against you will than that's assault. and no one should put up with it.

Answer 9

dump his @$$

Answer 10

It sounds to me that you are a little nervous when it comes to being intimate with your b/f . I think it will go away eventually. Just move at you own pace.