Parent Advise PLLLEAASSEEEE?

Question

I fyou already read im 17 and im rasing my little brother and sister as their legal guardian. How do you rasie a 14 year old girl who i was just in her sitaution but she wont listen. Im really good with her we have a good time and talk alot but the fact she just told me she has missed her period for 2 months really concerns me. I knew my sister was sexual active and being as young as i am i told her as long as she was safe. Im not fit to be a mother at my age but i have no clue how to handle this situation. My boyfriend and i where thinking about taking her to a doctor but there is no way i can allow another child into my life right now.

Answer 1

Tell her if she does not get her act together, that child services will take her away. Tell her exactly how you feel. That you are being forced to be an adult to soon in order for her to still be a child. And she needs to respect you. And then tell her that you love her but she needs to keep it in her pants. I am awed at how strong yo are being about this. Good luck, I will pray for you and your family.

Answer 2

dont stress out..

in today times this happens.. so your not alone if you go the doctors for a test.... at this stage their going to be adult chioces made. what ever you do dont beat yourself up.. look to your family for help or the church for encouragement.... its true this is one thing that scares  many women....

maybe the family, friends or church can help you raise the child if their one.... so find out whats the problem

and  a child is a blessing from above.......

if i was you i would keep the child. it will be worth it .............

Answer 3

Take her to the dr for a pregnancy test. Don't stress out about it or wig out on her. Try to talk her into adoption. There is also something called an open adoption where she can receive pictures and updates on the child and it's family.

God bless you. That is every mother's nightmare. Are there any Aunts or Uncles that can help you all?

Answer 4

Sorry to hear about you situation. Well first off you don't know if she is pregnant. Get a home test and see what that says and if you need to talk to a doc.

Please, if she is pregnant try and give the baby up for adoption. if you let her have an abortion neither one of you can forgive yourselves.

If she is not pregnant maybe this will open her eyes that she should be more careful.

Answer 5

you can't let youtr fear of another child stop you from helping your 14 yr old sister

i'm sure you love her more than enough to care for her own health and safety

i think you and your bf are right to tajke her to the doctor's, that's the best and only choice you really have right now

you could b worrying over the wrong ituation, it doesnt always mean the girl's pregnant if she misses her period but if she's pregnant, then decide as a family on what to do..

and btw, i don't think you shold encourage your 14 yr old sister to be sexually active at all...just another opinion thing

i know you are trying your best as a mother and i wish you the bestt of luckk XOXO

Answer 6

no abortion no way.

you can handle one more if it means life or death