Parent problems please help!!!!!!!!!

Question

i recently told my mom and step dad that i wanted to live with my dad and my big sisters.i didn't to put up with my step dad temper tantrums anymore.so my mom got really pissed off with me.and i don't know why.i told her that i wasn't moving because of her. but she makes little comments like "oh only the people that live in my house can use my remote" or " turn off your tv because your leaving and your costing me money on my electric bill.how petty could she be. and my step dad is pissed to.saying how i am not appreciative. what should i do?

Answer 1

That's a tough one. Before you move sit down with them and tell them how you are feeling and why you want to move. Give them the option of trying to work on things with you. You may be surprised at how things turn out. Hope this helps. I know it must be very difficult.  

Answer 2

I think that your Mom is feeling pretty hurt that you chose to live with your Dad instead of her. She is acting up and being a little immature, but even Moms aren't perfect.

Try to ignore it. Try to stay cool and not loose your temper and get moved to your Dad's as quick as possible.  

Answer 3

adults are different then children. a child can't see the whole story behind parent's words. so all you can do is let it go. Don't try and make them happy because its nearly impossible. if you think you can handle living there - do it but don't cause any trouble. stay invisible. if you can't handle it anymore then move out and stop being worried of what they might think. the only thing that matters is if you can become happier person being around all those unhappy people. you know?

Answer 4

Leave.  There is no reason why you should be treated this way by anyone.  Your mom should be taking your side on this and she isn't.  Talk to your real dad about it and see what ideas he comes up with.  He seems to be a good person and I am sure that he will not let you be abused in that way.

Answer 5

depends on how bad your step dads temper tantrums are

if hes getting physically abusive then yes move away

maybe it would be good to get away from all the drama at your home depending on how bad it really is

Answer 6

I understand where you r coming from.I lived in almost the same enviroment,only my step father would beat an rape me.Didnt have anywhere else to go.You should make sure its ok with your real dad to move in,make sure that you living there wont mess with the balance at his home.right now the way things are at your house it will only get worse.because now they have someone to focus theyre anger and or frustrations on.So if I were you I would move as soon as possible.

Answer 7

Move as quickly as possible and ignore them.  Become as independant as possible, read a book instead of watching tv, you will take away their power to torment you and that's the best revenge.

Ask your dad to help you move immediately.

Answer 8

theyll get over it. just give it time :)

Answer 9

Tell them how they're making you feel,

Answer 10

If you told your mom that you were going to leave and live with your dad and big sisters, why haven't you yet? Staying at home sounds awful. If your stuck living with the monsters, stay out of the house as much as possible. Go over to friends houses, do things after school, and seriously, next time you visit your dad, tell him about the situation. I'm sure he'll understand, and let you stay there. If I were you, I'd start packing your stuff as soon as possible.

Hope this helps!

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Answer 11

Mom needs to grow up and look at what is in your best interest.  It sounds like you have thought this out and are doing the best thing for you, good luck.

Answer 12

DAMMM well u need to do whta best for u. Your mom chose to be with your step dad and now u have to do whats best for u.