My 6 year old daughter has a friend who is also 6 and has a bunch of bad habits facilitated by her parents. She still sucks her thumb day and night, sleeps in her mom's bed when the father works nights, eats tons of junk whenever she's hungry ( no matter how late at night it is), and stays up late whenever she wants to , often later than the parents and even on school nights. The parents don't seem to have any concerns regarding her behaviour and seem to almost brag about it. My daughter wants her friend to sleep over. The problem I have is if I can apply the rules of our house to her, such as no thumb sucking, not eating late at night etc. When she's visited for brief times, she's been constantly hungry, but only wants junk. Should I be the one to try to change the pattern of her behavior if only for a brief period of time? I don't want to be the mean mom, but we have certain rules in our house that I don't think should be relaxed for a guest.
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