Parenting tips for teaching a child perseverance?

Question

We have a 9 year old son that gives up too easily when he meets an obstacle. This doesn't seem like teaching a child to multiply or spell. How do you teach character?

Answer 1

tell him a story.

about how u kept trying.

and it paid off.

Answer 2

Help him find something that really motivates him, then get him started on a long project. He may be bored with the thing he is giving up on.

Answer 3

The textbook answer would be to teach by example.  But I know that does not always work.  I have a 5 year old that does not have motivation to do what does not come easy.  It's tough.  I guess sometimes you just have to let them learn the hard way.

Answer 4

I agree with teaching by example.  You may have to come up with a few problems for yourself to solve in front of him.  Also plan some projects you can do together that shows that hard work pays off.   maybe plant a garden where you have to water, weed, etc before you get the reward.

Answer 5

tell him the story about the turtle and the bunny.