I am a single parent of a great little guy who will be four this month. I have an Associates degree and am going back for my Bachelors but that is where the problem lies. I was born in poverty, live in poverty, and will most likely die in poverty, and that is okay with me but I don't want that for him. I want to move to a smaller community (under 50,000) and one where Spanish is not the primary language. No offense meant but the schools here are dual immersion and produce kids that can barely read (the "poor" schools at least). I want better for him. Since he was born I have pretty much lost all confidence in myself since I am now responsible for someone elses life. It is a huge weight. I am 33 right now and will be 35 or 36 when I finish school. I want a job that will pay at least 35,000 so that I can buy a home but I can't find any jobs that will pay that. Which is why I am going back to school. I don't want to mess up with him and make him pay for my mistakes. I don't know what career to choose, what major to choose, where to move to, how to fix this, and NOT MESS UP. I was looking at memberships for the YMCA and that is now over 600 a year. I can't afford that on min wage. I've never made more than 11,000 a year and I really want a better life for him. Sometimes I just feel like giving up and finding him a good home that can give him the life he deserves, but then that makes me feel worse. The career center at the school just offers career tests which always points to the hard sciences. Right now I am in the Family and Human Development program which is really easy and really boring. What to do? Am I overthinking everything or am I doomed to have him pay for my mistakes?
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