I'm just wondering why parents expect their children to respect them when they don't respect their children. My parents and I'm sure quite a few others would assume children should respect their parents because they do a lot for them (provide a home, food, love) I do not agree with this. I believe that parents should earn their child's respect and not just get it. Parents try to teach their children that you have to work at something to get something in return. Why can't it work both ways? I'm not saying that respecting ones parents is a bad thing, just that it should be earned.
Parents do not always know what is best. I know that from personal experience. For example: Last summer my mom kicked me out of the house because she does not like females in her house. In May I discovered that I was depressed and asked for help. My grandparents (I live with them) asked my mom if she knew I was depressed and all she (my mom) said was "Yes, I knew. That is why I kicked her out." Then she expects me to respect her after she does that just because she is my parent?
Parents should have to earn respect. Do you agree with me or no? I am open to any opinions you may have. By the way, I'm 15 years old.
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