I am 18 and I finally have my liscense!!
Exciting right?
Getting to use the car to drive to soccer or see friends occasionally, returning the favor and running errands for mom...oh wait...thats someone elses life.
My mom won't even let me drive to soccer. Its 1.88 miles from my house and I am a CAUTIOUS driver.
She wont even put me on her insurance, so instead of paying $83 a month to my mom. I have to go on my own and pay $300!!!!!!!!!
Every single one of my friends is on their parents insurance.
Her reasoning is if I were to have a wreck, it would go against her not me and make her look bad. All my friends parents are taking that risk but my mom is selfish.
I have a semester of HS left.
So during this time, I am going to slave at job, I am going to work a lot and save my money and buy a car for when I go to college in the winter and I am going to keep a steady job and pay for insurance and half the rent for an apt.
But you know what none of it seems worth it, wanna know why?
Because no one is going to help me, no one is going to see all the hard work I am going to do. Usually when people work hard like that and people notice their perseverance, dedication, hard work, their sacrafices and they help that person out. Im not talking random people, im talking family members.
But my question is:
Would you do this to your teen? Leave them high and dry?
Would you offer no assistance in easing them into the world?
Would you make them figure everything out on their own and let them suffer and do without?
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