Today, my 3 year old daughter and I were leaving a play group and, she started to run ahead of me a bit, not in away that I could not have easily grabbed her but in a way that would take me about three steps to grab her, she was about 3 seconds ahead of me.
When she intially ran I shouted her name and she kept running, she ran all the way to the house (not crossing the street, just a straight path) which was about 4 seconds a way, she looked back at me laughing thinking it was a game.
I thought it was serious all though she was not in grave danger, it was serious to me because she did not stop when I called her.
However, to get to the house she did have to run pass the parking lot, which is usually full of playing children as oppsosed to cars. My daughter ran all the way to the stairs, and to the front door. All the while looking back at me laughing.
I had a very angry face on, there were people outside that looked at my daughter but then quickly looked at me, they just kept looking at me, I don't know why they kept looking at me I don't know if it was because they rarely see me, or becuase I looked so pissed.
Well anyway what I did was as soon as my daughter got into our apartment I let her have it; meaning I told her never to run ahead of me without stopping again, I used my firm voice. I got really strict and firm and let her know that I was dissapointed with her and I let her know that she could have got hurt if a car did come out of the parking lot, and she finally understood and honestly said to me that she understood and would not do it again.
This is out of the ordinary she has only done something like this 1 other time, she is very well behaved but today, she was just overly excited/tired from playing. I try to be a good parent, I just hate it when my kid does something that makes me look bad.
She didn't run into the street or anything, she stayed on the path but she did have to run pass the parking lot (I was 3 seconds behind her) which could have potentially been dangerous. If a car pulled out quickly she could have been hit.
How do you think I handled this situation?
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