Parents? how would you feel about your teenager..?

Question

having her boyfriend (of a year) come over after he works 11pm-7am and going into her bed and going to sleep cuddling her? would you be okay with that?

Answer 1

My husband would kill him. I would get my daughter on birth control just to be safe. But I would not allow a boy to sleep in her room in MY house unless they were legally married. She won't even be spending the night at a house with a boy living there!

Answer 2

abso friggin' lutley not!!!!!!

Answer 3

Although I myself am not a parent, I know that my mother would never have allowed that.  

Guys weren't even allowed in my bedroom until I was 18yrs. of age, unless it was for a school assignment and then the door had to be left open.  

I would first question what my child was doing, giving someone a key to the house.  

If I had a daughter, no I would not be okay with her boyfriend coming into my home at 7AM and going into my daughter's bedroom.

Answer 4

I would not be allowing that... He is slowly but surely moving hisself in....Do you see that? She will be pregnant if you let that keep on going on...I would not allow this at all if it were my kid.

Answer 5

yes theres nothing wrong with that . put yourself in her shoes

Answer 6

Any parent who would allow their teenager to do that should be taken out and shot,they aren't fit to be called a parent.I would meet the boy at the door with a shotgun full of rock salt and bacon rind.I would give him a 20 second head start.

My daughter would KNOW better than to EVER even THINK of asking such a foolish thing.

Answer 7

it depends on the teen. if she is trust worthy and has a talk to you before she does that kind of stuff then yeaa id say its fine... but if she sneaks him in the house and you catch them then then kids dude needs to have to call his parents to tell them where he has been and the teen needs to be grounded for atleast 2 weeks... ahah  <33

Answer 8

it depends on you,your her mother.i hope shes on  birth control.unless u want to be grandma.i would get her on it asap.i was a teen mom.my life turned upside down fast.i had to grow up fast.

Answer 9

No.  Even if you think that they are not doing anything, our kids need us to set the examples.

Answer 10

my parents never allowed it and i will never allow it.

Answer 11

no. He would be welcome in my house (provided that I approved of him) but if he were to stay the night, he would be on the couch and she would be in her room.

Answer 12

Not a chance in heck.

Answer 13

my brother has a girlfriend and i know that if i were my parents if i like the guy and i know he's a good guy. and keep the door open and listen than thats fine. it's so cute when people cuddle in bed.

Answer 14

for one, when you say teen, do you mean a 13, 14, 15, 16, or 17 year old???

Honestly, no i would not be okay with that sort of thing until they were in college, tho i'd always tell them to wait for marriage.

Even if they are not messing around, sleeping, actually sleeping together....its a sort of bonding, that i dont know i'd want my daughter or son to experiance to early.

Also, what does his parents think of this arrangement????

Answer 15

It has happened in my house.  I don't approve but it happened.