Parents let younger sister get away with anything?

Question

im 16 she 11. they let her do whatever she wants, im not even exagreating [spelling??]. she unplugs my laptop when its charging and my mom makes excueses like maybe she tripped, im like the way its placed all nicely u can tell she didnt trip my moms like maybe she tripped and put it there. she bit me yesterday i had a bite mark 4 hours and my mom didnt care. she lets this kid get away with to much she lies about everything and u can tell wen she lies cause she starts laughing or smiling or acting uncomfortable. its just really unfair. how can i get my parents to see how unfair they are being. and btw i dont get away with stuff like her cause my parents are always yelling at me for the same things my sister does adn gets away with, adn no i didnt get away with alot of stuff when i was 11.

Answer 1

it is just because she is the baby my mother did the same thing made excuses for my brother, and still does, I got it the roughest now I am a successful business owner with a great husband and a wonderful son, my bro on the other hand just got bailed out of jail by his girlfriend mother for the 5th time he has no ambition except to be lazy, smoke pot and do graffiti so thank your lucky stars that won't be you, give up on your parents, teach the little brat a lesson clip off a small piece of her hair in her sleep, then tell her the brat fairy must have done it and every time she pisses you off clip another piece, if your parents say anything tell them you have no idea what she is on about and walk away, trust me she will stop bugging you, just keep telling her it was not you but the brat fairy!!! god luck  

Answer 2

they let her get away with stuff because they dont like her as much as they like  you.... no, really if they dont put their foot down your mom will end up making excuses for her for the rest of her life

Answer 3

Really, don't talk about them being fair/unfair, because that pretty much means that you want to be able to do all the things she does. Do you really want to go around biting people?

Rather, explain to your parents that they're teaching her a horrible set of life skills.

1) by letting her lie to them, they're teaching her that it's ok for her to lie. And it isn't a phase she'll grow out of, she'll just get better at it when she realizes that not everyone is as gullible as her parents.

2) by making excuses for everything she does, they're showing her that she doesn't actually need to do 'the right thing' or do things properly, she just needs to make excuses for why she didn't do it. Do you think her future employer will buy that? No. They'll fire her, and then find someone who does the work right the first time.

3) Allowing her to bite???? Really? Honestly, for this, I wonder if your parents maybe wanted to get a dog, but then found out they were pregnant with her. Because really. I have no words. All the other stories or incidents I've heard/seen that involved biting kids... they were like 6 max. But, you probably shouldn't mention the dog thing to your parents, so let them know that it really is inexcusable behaviour. She's 11. I'm not saying she should be a "young adult", but she should definitely act her age. By letting her get away with such (extremely!) childish behaviour, they're showing her that she doesn't need to mature. Ever. That's not a lesson that'll go away. Think about it this way: Who wants to grow up, when they could just be a kid forever? She's going to grow up immature, irresponsible, and believing that she can do anything she wants, whenever she wants. Unless your parents want to run after her for her whole life, doing damage control, they really should start raising her properly.