Parents: my parents won't let me date at my age (17)?

Question

I have never done anything to make them loose their trust in me, but they won't let me even TALK to boys, period. If they see any boys on my MySpace they'll take it away from me! Please help! I'm seventeen-years-old. Any advice?

Answer 1

 a nice girl like you MUST have a couple close friends totall ybe open with them and let them share a myspace account etc with you but make sure you totally kep it hiden from parents. Now just use this to chat to boys but trust me I'm a guy and even for guys relationships are worth nothing more than s*x and s**t while a teenager so chill out relax and enjoy the adrenalin rush of your controlled lifestyle.

If they do find out then ask them why they don't let you see boys and have a reall deep meaningful chat but always respect parents never hate them it's just... when you get to about 31 life kinda gets s**t and the only way to feel happy is to have control they are constantly working to just keep awake that's how hard working life and ageing life is even if ur mum or dad is a stay at home they do s**t loada chores a lot. So just think that they are destressing with the control and you need to let them feel they are in control and just gently meet a guy. if you did meet a guy of your dreams then I'm sure if you talked long enough he'd understnad your situation and keep it secret till you were older when you could 'pretend to have just met him' ;) it's the way of life some ppl are protective over kids others dont care my parents are SO OVER protective so I know how you feel but just think that when your like 40 years old youll actually be happy you didnt make the mistakes other ppl did at that age and can proudly tell your kids of your wonderful childhood of adventurously sneakign around your tough parents like the bes tbedtime stories haha!!! gotta love strict parents XD but dont be over protective to ur kids set an example :)