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Question

Hi. I am a mother of 2 girls one is 5 years old and the other is 6 years old. One day I was busy doing some work around the house and I let my girls watch some t.v. So I just came to get something in the same room when I saw that my children were watching a very sexually explicit show. I don't know how they got onto the channel or how they even unlocked it because all those channels are locked. But I don't know what to do to the children now or what to say. My younger daughter was sort of "freaked out" about it.

Any help? Thank you in advance.

Answer 1

Well, it's time to have a s*x talk of sorts.  I would just explain to them what they saw ... in a way of ... "When two people love each other, like mommy and daddy do, they like to express their love."  I definitely don't think you need to go into details, but just explain that what they saw is two adults who love each other a lot.  That it's a pretty and happy thing.  But it's also a very private thing that we only do or talk about at home (because you definitely don't want them going to school talking about what they saw).  And let them ask questions because the less they wonder about the less they'll be likely to bring it up.  You could try asking them what they think they saw before you talk about what you know they saw.  They might have interpreted it quite differently from what you expect.

Answer 2

Ask them if they want to talk about it and if so, listen and answer according to their need to know.

Answer 3

you need to explain to them wat they were doing just do not go into that much of detail explain to them thats how babies are made. and answer their questions if they have any.

Answer 4

was this at night usually those type of things are on at night aren't they. any way maybe you should talk to your husband or boyfriend who ever could have unlocked those channels and remind them that there are 2 little girls in the house that can't watch those things and they need to be mindful and as for your girls talk to them about it and answer any questions they may have. you dont want to tramatize them but you dont want them to tell their friends what they saw either.

Answer 5

is there anyone else in the house that could have UN-locked it and forgot to lock it again and then when the girls fliped channal by mistake they came upon it..?

there little, change the channel real fast and get the ice cream, they will forget real fast..