with many of the recent teen pregnancies happening today, it seems that more and more teens are falling back on their parents to either raise the child partially or completely while the child goes on to live their lives, go to school, party, etc. while we are living in different times now, and teen pregnancy is becoming the norm, it seems that more kids are under the impression that if they get pregnant while in high school that things will be okay because the parents will be available to help out. while i certainly don't advocate abandoning a pregnant teen, i can't help but think that it can sometimes send the wrong impression to the teen and to the teen's childless peers when the grandparents of said children are left holding the bag. i often see talk shows where young women will have multiple children that they are unable to care for while their whole family has to financially and physically pitch in to help care for and raise them. it's not fair to adults when teens get pregnant and the adults have to take money out of savings or take money away from the teen's siblings to care for the child. am i making sense? i just feel that teens get the wrong impression of how hard it is to really care for a baby when mom and dad step up and they handle most of the financial and baby sitting duties. but with that said, is there a way to help take care of the babies while the teen mom and/or dad, are pitching in?
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