Growing up, my mother and I had a very close relationship. I would usually drink at my house with my close friends, who would sleep over, with my mother in the other room. I am now in college and rarely drink because it’s not a huge deal to me.
A have friends who were not allowed to drink in high school and had strict curfews. All of these people drank and lied to their parents. They would drive home drunk in order to make curfew. These are the same people who went crazy in college, intoxicated with freedom. They pushed drinking & s*x to the max because they no longer had to hide it. It went from total restriction to total freedom & no boundaries, & they went off. A friend of mine almost died from alcohol at a party. She was dragged outside & left in a gutter because people were afraid of getting in trouble. Binge drinking is so huge in America because it is so taboo & forbidden. It’s not as common in Europe because kids often have a glass with dinner and can be open about it.
I want my kids to know they can call anytime for a ride home or try a few drinks with friends at home so I can make sure everyone is safe.
I think kids are going to do what they want to do
Q1: opinions?
Q2: personal experiences about correlation between partying & strict boundaries?
Q3: Why are so many against giving kids a safe place to experiments where they can watch over?
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