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Hi everyone,

Just quickly need advice my boyfriend and I have been together 15 months and we rent together, we fight alot due to my insecurities, he does tell me all the time that he loves me and he literally cried when we fight cos he feels he cant handly fighting and loves to do anything to make me happy and feels that it is never good enough for me.

He tends to comment on girls occasionaly but says there is nothing in it and he doesnt want anyone else but me but feels comfortable making statements around me and knows how much it bothers me and will try to stop, I get really angry as im insecure and it makes me feel really jealous but he does say he loves me and he has put up with alot.

Does this sound like realy love?

Answer 1

No, it doesn't.

Answer 2

Very immature love.

There is no respect and communication is very immature/undeveloped.

This relationship is only good in that it will teach you what to look for (or not) in the next partner.

Answer 3

Sounds to me like a love hate relationship. Nothing wrong with that, it's actually a positive in a relationship because he really isn't hiding anything from you and secrets about each other will come out to the open instead of being kept inside and cover with lies. Have a talk with each other to discuss the situation and everything should be ok!!!

Answer 4

If you are fighting this much and not even married, marriage won't solve it.  And no, this isn't real love.