Party this Sunday... And I suck at dancing?

Question

Yup, it's a dance-ish party, at least her past ones have been, so I've heard.

This year I made friends with her, and I'd really love to go to her party. Problem is...

I

CANT

DANCE

Not at all. I'm 16 and I've read almost all the hints on Yahoo Answers about this stuff... "Just let go..." and... "Practice in front of a mirror," and all this c**p... I just can't.

And I don't think it's that I don't have rythum, I play guitar and do very well. But... I don't know.

OH and everyone grinds, and I'd love to, sexual freedom and whatnot, but I don't know how. How?

Maybe you could send me some videos of people dancing at a dance in High School?

Gahh, just give me some tips. Please.

Answer 1

I aggre...

dont grind!! Get out there and when a song comes on...dont think!! Just let your body move!! Let you body do what ever it wants to do!! Unless you are on some type or dance team...dancing should not be practiced!! Just let you body go!! It might sound crazy, but when you here the music you body should no what to do all on its own!!

and rule #1...

HAVE FUN!!

Answer 2

i think everybody normally answers this type of question as the answerer recognizes the problem as a "i-think-i-look-stupid-dancing-and-i-ref...

dance-in-from-of-people" problem.  from the description i get the vibe dat u would dance, its just a question of letting loose.

so, first listem to Shawty Get Loose by Lil Mama, T-Pain, and Chris Brown.

just kidding.

u really just jump around and act crazy.  i had a similar problem too.  i was going to a bat mitzvah that was a dance party but i had NO IDEA how to dance...but after a couple of minites i was doing really well.

its really just a matter of letting urself loose and not being uptight and rigid.

just go and HAVE FUN!!!

and no grinding.  its nasty.

Answer 3

I know how you feel! my fiends are all really good at hip hop dancing and i am NOT!

Anyway...

After a few school dances i got used to it. Just try to have fun, maybe watch a friend who is good and try to follow their rhythm. I also learned a lot by watching the movies "Save the Last Dance" and "Step UP". they are both good movies too :)

And DON"T grind! It is gross! The whole sexual freedom thing is your choice but grinding is nasty.

HAVE FUN!! if you try to chill and just go with the rhythm of the music you will be fine.

Answer 4

don't grind!!!!thats sick!!!  when i dance, i just get out there and do whatever comes to mind. its fun

Answer 5

The way you can find how to do dnaces is on youtube.com they show you how to crank dat Dora,The 5000,Souljaboy,blank,and Batman and many more it helps alot I know how to dance and have rythm!But I did not know how to do the beginning of the 5000 so I looked it up and it helped alot!! Dont worry this happens to alot of people but you need to know how to let yourself go and not care what others think or say!!