Passive-aggressive GF?

Question

This has happened a few times now :

How can you tell when a passive -aggressive actually means what they are saying or when they are just saying it out of anger?

e.g. one week - 'we're not compatible. it doesn't work.'

next week - 'i'm convinced I'm in love with you.'

Answer 1

Sit her down when it's NOT on the table and ask her how she really feels about you.  Tell her that she's sending mixed messages and you need to know where things truly stand and what is just angry lashing out on her part.  Explain these contradictions confuse you and hurt you.  She probably has no idea what she's doing to you.  I bet people just react to her and pay her no mind.  Which is so bad with passive-aggressive people, they never learn how to behave properly.

Answer 2

She sounds like more trouble than she is worth. Dump her and move on to someone who can act like an adult.  

Answer 3

She's not passive aggressive. Passive aggression is, while during an argument she won't hit you or throw things around, she will do indirect things to get in your nerves like throwing away your favorite, old, tattered toy. She's indecisive about how she feels about you. It would be best to sit her down and ask her for a straight forward answer.