Paternity tests friend in denial?how soon can they be preformed?

Question

Alright my best friend Brit and her boyfriend John have been together since the end of senior year in highschool currently they are now 22 and 23 yrs old. Anyway to get to the point they were getting ready after a lot of pushing on Brit's part to start planning a wedding.To be honest they started out bad to begin with back in HS because Brit hooked him while his then gf (Jane)was pregnant and they were in a ruff patch by playing the friend card.The poor girl miscarried all alone and almost died ! anyway John felt bad and tried to keep her as a friend but Brit would not allow it.Things went on the first 1-1.5 yrs they were dating she complained about hang up calls to the point she made him change his cell number.Well the unthinkable happened John was in a terrible car accident things looked bad it was a ruff week for my bff he asked that his family,best friend, Brit, and ex.gf Jane?He revealed Jane was pregnant with his son...?

Answer 1

not till the baby is born. what a rough patch for everyone. wow. is the ex prgnant? or was he just up on meds and confused? the first thing to do would be to find the ex and see what she says. is she pregnant and does she say its his?

Answer 2

huh?

they can be preformed as soon as the baby comes out, or while the girl is still pregnant but thats more costly with a risk involved so just wait til the baby is born.

Answer 3

Well unless the other girl wants her child to be tested when it is born then there is nothing anyone can do.

It will be up to the father(if he is) and mother if they want to have it done and nothing to do with your friend.

It is sad that she never completed college etc but your friend chose this. He never forced her to give up her dreams and if she did for the sake of one guy then she is stupid.

He was obviously not ready to be getting married and she should have listened to him and not forced him towards that way. They were still young and had plaenty of time for that in the future.

Perhaps he is mistaken and the drugs were making him confused. Or it is true and he had now decided that he wants to be responsibkle and make sure he is there for this baby when he was not for his last.

Your friend could ask the ex whether it is true or ask her boyfriend.

If it is then she will have to accept that there relationship is over

Answer 4

When the baby is born they can take a sample and have results back in a week or two.

Answer 5

Seems to me that your best friend Brit is a controlling and manipulative person.  She shouldn't be surprised that he is not on board for her plans.  It's time she cut the cord and move on to someone who is not attached, because he likely isn't attached to her.  Her own fault for being in a bad way.  The paternity test can't be done until the baby is born.  She has no say in it.