Pen Pal meeting?????

Question

I'm meeting my pen pal at a concert we both seem to be going to...

I know she's not a pedophile...or a man.

She's a 14 year old girl...

Anyway, she's bringing friends...4 to be exact...1 of which is a girl 3 of which are boys...

I've already talked to one boy, and he seems pretty cool, layed back, calm, makes friends easily kind of guy...and my pen pal's already told him about me, and we've talked online, and I've seen his myspace....So I'm good with him. :]

When I meet her, I don't want to seem like the third wheel.

What do I do?? She's the cool "scene kid" with all her "scene" friends...I'm uhmm normal looking, and I don't think I'd fit in with the rest of her "gang"

I'm just nervous I guess, and excited at the same time...We both have a lot in common, and like the same kinds of bands..but I'm just afraid that theres more that I'm missing or something =/

Suggestions??

Answer 1

just be yourself. if you don't click with her in real life or with her friends, then don't hang out anymore.

Answer 2

You should take one of your friends anyway. But I like to wear different kinds of clothes then a lot of my friends and I do my hair nad makeup different then them.. but that's what I like about them.. They don't copy me and they are in to their own things. Opposites attract in love and friendship. You guys and been writting to eachother and like eachother enough right? Just go, be yourself, and have fun.  

Answer 3

well, be yourself as much as possible but try to be a little like them so you dont feel weird. i think you should take one of your friends aswell, but make sure you dont just spend your time with her or him.do your hair differently which will make you feel cool. (:  

Answer 4

Firstly, I dont like this entire idea of penpals meeting up. Secondly, if she's taking her friends, I believe u should take your friends too, so that u feel better and more confident. Thirdly, just be yourself- thats the trick.