People At School?!?

Question

Hi there,

All the guy at my school make fun of me beause I have a horse. when ever i walk by they will say "HORSE" or they will b like " Lets go ride our horses tonight" and stupid stuff like that.

They will also be like " I love Mario" and thats my ponys name and his show ame is Super Mario so they wll prin off pictures of super Mario and put them in my boks locker or backpack

Also on MSN they send me messages like " OHH whos your boyfriend.. YOUR g*y HORSE" and like THye say "HORSE" on msn also. Ive trie dto tell them to stop ad they dont and i also say F off and that kind of stuff but as usual guys are just too retartd to know any better!

What should I do?!

Its really anyoning

ALso other girls at my school ride and they don't bother them!

Thanks

Answer 1

omg. what low-lifes. they may be trying to make you feel bad, and i would never do that to someone, but their insults are c**p. cant they do better??? ---I DONT WANT THEM TO I JUST THINK THE INSULTS ARE CRAPPY. lol.

it doesnt look like anything else is gonna work, and if you tell a teacher or soemthing, the insults may just get worse. you have 3 options in my opinion.

1. when they insult you, tell them it doesnt hurt and yes, i do love mario!! say stuff like yes, he is a horse....thanks for pointing out the obvious. if they say 'horse' just go, um, are you ok? they would probably ask what you mean and just say well, you have a habit of blurting out rndom words,i tohught there was sometihng wrong with you.

2. find something a bit embarrassing (not like a story, something like a hobby) and shove it all back in their face. insult the h**l out of them. dont feel bad. just calm down or stop when they look like their gonna tell  teacher or say 'now you know what it's like'.

3. have good come-backs. if they say stuff about your horse, like your horse is g*y, just say and you're not? last time i checked, my horse had all the girls, but you.....

im not insensitive- i just think ome thing need to be said.

Answer 2

answer them back!!

dont let thm mess around with u like that!!

insult them back so bad so they dont say anything ever again!!!!!

gud luck

:)

Answer 3

agh. they're just trying to get under your skin.

when they say stuff like "lets go ride our horses tonight" ask them, "oh you ride? thats cool. there's not very many guys who ride. Whats your horses name? what style do you ride? do you show?" stuff like that. it will throw them off because they are looking for a negative reaction out of you. When they say that they love your horse say, "oh really? thats cool. you should come see him/ ride him one day, then you would really like him." when they bug you on msn BLOCK THEM. you dont have to put up with their ****. they are trying to get a reaction out of you, so give them something they're not expecting. use what they say and act like they meant that they ride or like your horse, and start a conversation with them. once they dont get a negative reaction, they will get bored and stop messing with you.

Answer 4

Ignore them. They're just being stupid. They might think that horse people are weirdos or little girls with their pretty pretty ponies. They don't know. They have no idea the great bond that people can share with such an animal. Block them on IM, ignore them at school, and forget about them. They aren't worth your time. The fact that they single you out is just stupid. I'm sure all of your freinds think they are jerks and they probably dont realize that they arent being cool, they're just making asses out of themselves. I know it hurts but just know that the bond with your horse is strong enough to sheild you from these jerks.

Answer 5

Like you said, guys can be retarded..so don't even try to reason with them.  And as hard as it is..try to avoid telling them to F---- off..that is just letting them know they are getting to you.  

Are you friendly with the girls that ride?  And, are the girls friendly with the boys that are bothering you?  Just wondering if they might be instigating it.  Girls are normally meaner than boys!!  Just a thought.

Someone also mentioned about one of them liking you..and if you spend most of your free time with your horse and not classmates, it could be to get your attention.

I know it is easier said than done...but be the better one and don't react to them.  I'm sure it probably happens when they are in a group..have you ever tried to talk to just one of them without the others around?  I'm sure that there is at least one of them that doesn't agree with the teasing but he himself suffers from the peer pressure and is a follower.  

Just be a young lady and giggle and walk away...it will bother them more that they are not getting a reaction!!

Answer 6

My dad always says insult is taken not given so if they say stuff like that just say yes I do have a horse and he rocks. THey just might be jealous of you who knows. If they call it g*y you could always spin it and say well YOU might think its "g*y" but whos the one surrounded by all of they girls?? Oh ya that would be ME!! Guys mock each other just to get a reaction so just ignore them and don't let it bother you. if they say "lets go ride our horses tonight" just say "you know what that sounds like a really good idea i think i will." They are just trying to push your buttons eventually it will lose its entertainment value for them and they will stop. Personally i think more guys should do horseback riding. What is actually ironic is that it used to just be guys that rode not girls. The only reason that the girls don't get made fun of is because it is seen as a typical female sport. But if you really love it don't stop for anyone because you will regret it.

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if it is really that bad then you need to have your parents talk to the principle because they can get suspended and expelled for that kind of stuff. If they msn you save them and  print them out so that you can show your parents and the principle and keep anything that they give you. You don't have to put up with it so don't.

Answer 7

I think that these guys are getting to you, and they know it. It sucks, but they know that they can get a rise out of you, and they love to see you squirm.

I would ignore most of them (and by ignore I mean rolling your eyes and doing your best to not let it affect you). Make funny and sarcastic remarks to the ones that you decide are worth the effort.

I would respond to the remarks about dating your horse with like remarks (if you dare), like: "Yeah, I ride him, and you know what, he is a much better ride than you could ever be." or "If there were any decent guys at this podunk school, I might not prefer the company of Mario so much!" or "Thanks for all the pics of Mario, but he does have a slightly more oblong body, nice try."

As cliche as it sounds, DON'T LET THEM KNOW THEY GET TO YOU!

I was teased about a lot when I was younger, and as soon as they realize that they can't get to you, they give up.

Answer 8

they just know it bothers you

just ignore it, the teasing not the boys

theyll grow up eventually

but dont be all obsessed with your horse

in high school theyll all make s*x jokes about "riding" and they think its sooo funny

haha but i do too so whatever

just kinda laugh with them ya kno

Answer 9

I have had that same problem.

What grade are you in?

My dad always said to me if you just ignore them and act like you don't care they'll stop. But if you react to it they'll keep doing it. Those kind of people have there heads up there butts don't know right from wrong, don't have a life, don't have anything better to do, and are obviously bored with themselves. Don't even try to tell them to stop or leave me alone they'll just keep doing it. If they put something in your locker just throw it away and act like nothing is going wrong.....then they should stop, they should get bored with themselves real soon.

Horses are cool so don't worry about what they say. Oh and by the way my gelding is my love <3. I love him more them my BF=]

It's just the way it goes. So tell those dumb boys yupp my horse is my BF. If the say something negitive say something positive.

Hope they quit bugging you.

Answer 10

Its either the guys have a crush on you and are being stupid, or they are just being stupid and want a reaction from you, pay them no mind and ask as if you dont hear them. Do talk to them or reply to thier messages, they are only tried to get on your nerves and the more you do and say to them the more they get a high on getting you upset. If you pay them no mind they will eventually stop the harrassment, I would also go to the principal at your school and tell them they are harrassing you.

Answer 11

1. The Guy Is Jelous,,

2. The Guy Has A Crush On You

3. Just Walk By Smiling

4. When You Walk By And Says Something Think Of Something He Wouldnt Like (embarrising of him) And Say It

5. When You Walk By Just Be Like,, Ya I Have A Horse So What,,

6. Just Go Up To Him And Say Whats So Bad About Having A Horse,, So I Do Something With My Life Unlike Somepeople I Know,,

7. Dont Even Act Like It Bothers You,,

8. Become Friends With The Horse People,,

9. Form A Big Group Of The Horse People,, And Then When He Says It They Might Get Offended To,,

10. Tell Your Horse Friends And Maybe You Can Come Up With Something And Show Him That Riding Horses Is The Same As Playing Foot Ball,, Getting Out Is Better Then Sitting On The Couch,,

11. About The Projects Next Time They Do It,, And Give It Too You,, You Should Be Like WTH Is This,, Something Made From You Looks Like Trash To Me,, Rip It Up And Throw It In Your Facess

I Had The Same Problem With A Guy I Had A Crush On,, Turns Out He Had Liked Me Too

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Answer 12

guys arent worth ANYTHING

so wht they say doesnt mean a thing to anyone

unless u let it.

besides

you should be proud of wht u do

Answer 13

Just tell them that it's something you like to do and they don't see you walking around making fun of football / soccer / lacrosse (whatever's big at your school) and if they don't like it it's too bad and they can go FOAD. (F*** Off And Die).

BTW I love the name...Mario is so cute!

Answer 14

1. Thery're JEALOUS

2. Ignore them

3. the only reason they are acting like that is they wish they could have a horse, maybe their parents wouldn't let them get one and so they're taking it out on you because you're lucky and have one!!

So don't let these wannabe's bother you!!

Good Luck!!

Answer 15

sometimes when nothing makes sense, i just don't know, but it's times like these when i remember who i am and what i have overcome, in times like these i know that I can achieve greatness, these times define who i am.......

hang in there, high school is rough, be yourself, and be proud of who u are, you may not be able to control others, but you are always in control of yourself, and eventually this too will pass, don't let those people get to you, there are mean people out there, but there are good people out there too, just hang in there, be true to yourself and know that these people may be jealous of you, or possibly afraid of you, or maybe they just don't understand you, maybe you are stronger than you think you are and people sense this so they try to bring you down to a different level, their level.

be yourself, be proud of who you are and what you like to do, if it continues i would talk to the principle. sometimes people do things to which you may never have a reason for why they do those things. it probably isn't you at all, just someone or a couple people that don't like you for reasons not worth trying to figure out. be strong, you can get through this. sometimes i f people sense something is bothering you they will continue to try to use that to try to upset you. be strong.

Answer 16

Take them up on the offer to go ride horses.  If they actually show up, then show off and they won't mess with you again. I've done it, it works ;)

Answer 17

They are immature dorks.

Change your MSM so they can't leave you any messages and ignore the rest of it. Don't even bother telling them to stop or F off or whatever because that is reacting to them and that is what they want - just ignore them totally.

Answer 18

Best thing is to ignore them They get a kick out of it when you get upset. Tell them that your horse has more common sense then they do. And say things like well I hang out with my horse more because he doesn't say stupid annoying immature things. Tell them to grow up. Just be the bigger person. Kids are dumb. I wouldn't let some dumb boys in school bother you. It will be over sooner then you know it.

Answer 19

O, do I know what that feels like! I'm very pretty, it's just that in the fourth grade I wen't out with the most popular guy in my grade, and when I broke up with him he was so mad that all he does now is make fun of me and goes to the extreme like " I'm going to kill your horse, and blah blah blah." Of course theirs nothing I could do about it cause are principle is a dum *** b*****d who doesn't know anything. I am not very popular any more, although I used to be very popular before I wen't out with that *** hole, know he just makes me look like a fool. I have slapped the **** out of him a few times, BUT DON'T do that LoL I was a little grumpy that day and spilled. Just ignore him and take his advise. If he sais im going riding tonight say " Really, I was just going to do the same thing!". If he sais your horse is g*y turn it around and say " Your just jelouse because you can't get a girl and my horse can!" I'm sure you can come up with other stuff to

Answer 20

I know what your going through

completely ignore them they will get bored honest they will. Or you could make sure your around A) a teacher B) and older student for as long as possible so there's someone there to back you up.

Tell a teacher you could tell them its happening but not to do anything until they hear it so they could see for them self's whats going on they could deal with it better.

Or you could get your mum or dad to phone the school if its really getting you down.

On msn just block them so then they can't say anything to you its simple.

hope this helps

Emilyxo.

Answer 21

just ignore them. theres nothing else to do.

Answer 22

I get teased for riding by some of my so called 'friends' but i don't let it bother me. I'm doing something i love so why should i care? I completely understand it must be hard for you but you're obviously very passionate about your hobby so they're probably jealous. Can you tell a teacher or someone at school that could help you? x