People Call Me Emo At School?

Question

Okay There was this incident in elem school where these wanna be emo kids cut them selves and then MY friends told on them and then they said that I told them to do it! OMG! Then People come up to me now and say Your Emo and they imitate cutting their wrists. I hate it. I am going knock someone's lights out if they call me that again! People also call me emo because i wear eyeliner. its not even heavy eyeliner either! I wear regular shiny lip gloss. I wear white, pink, blue, gray, black, ETC. i wear Vans, Normal Running Shoes, and High Heeled Flip Flops. How can i get them to stop calling me that?

ONE MORE THING: My "So Called Friend" told me her and her other friend imitated me and put on like really heavy eyeliner and was pretending to act like me!!!! UGH!

Answer 1

your not an emo !!!!!! people are just jackasses with nothing better to be doing, what happened was big news and your parents were right to do what they did because i dont know if those kids ever saw what it looks like when you cut your wrists but its not a nice sight, you just have to rise above the bullys and except yourself for what your are, your own person .who doesnt wear the same clothes as everyone else just to fit in, wear what makes you comfortable and most of all be yourself !!!. theres no quick way to stop the bullys other than ignore them and tone them out for what they are, fools !!!!!!! p.s vans are the business

Answer 2

yeah that happened to me too.... but im in 6th grade now starting middle school.... so on the first day of school i was wearing a shirt with skulls on it but its purple and not bloody skulls or anything... something regular girls woulkd wear, and i painted my nails black, and weared some earrings with skulls and a gray heart. and I'M NOT EMO/GOTH/PUNK or anything to that effect. if anything im more tomboy!! yeah and so my friends kept calling me emo.they were like OMG JANESSA!! what happened!!! ahhh emo alert!! omg thats sooo annoying..... i didnt even look emo!! it was actually a preppy look!! how could i be emo if im wearing butterfly capris?!!?!?! its annoying best way is to if they call u emo again just say "and who are you to tell me that i'm emo?" ur in 7th so that means like ur more independent than u were in 5th..... so just stand up 4 urself or just ignore them. and of course ur not emo! so just talk back at them but dont get into a fight! maybe say... "ok first off im not emo k get that straight and ur nothing but a beep!! lol jk but instead of beep u can say something insulting.... but not TOOO insulting cause that means detention and stuff. just say "talk to the hand" lol and stuff and ur  so called friend if they were really your friend they wouldnt have done wat they did. ihad a friend like that and it was horrible!!!  and trust me... i know how emo looks!! i saw some 8th graders that look sooo emo!!! jeez some people must be blind if they cant see that i'm/u are not emo!! hope they stop saying that!!:)

Answer 3

haha... the s**+***iest years of my life. You guys may think your all old and grown up. just wait a few years everyone/ everything changes. I'm 17 and a junior. s***w those friends and find kids your comfortable and happy around.

Answer 4

cheer up emo kid! :D

Answer 5

I'm sorry to hear about this, I know what you're going through. I know you want to hit the next person who says this to you, but trust me from experience, that it is NOT the best solution to your problem! I punched someone for bullying me for 3 years, I got suspended, it made me look bad in front of everyone, and ruined my rep even more. It's something I regret, and I now realize that ignoring them is the best option.

I know I sound like most parents here, but ignoring them is the best option. They're saying this because they get enjoyment of making you feel bad. If you ignore them for a while, they'll eventually realize that it doesn't bother you (even if it does) and leave you alone.

But some people won't leave you alone, no matter what you do about it. So for now, the best bet is to ignore them, and tell a trusted adult so they can help you.

Answer 6

lallallalalla

Answer 7

You are gonna find out that people are going to talk about others all time. The best thing you can do is to just ignore them and stay true to who you are. It doesn't matter what you wear or how you look.. as long as your happy :)

Answer 8

WTF

IS IT WITH PEOPLE AND FREAKING LABELS?

I HATE THAT

SOME FRIEND,I SAY DUMP HER

AND EYELINER?ESHPLEY BLACK IS NOT EMO

GOSH WHY IS IT SO BAD TO WEAR BLACK EYELINER?I DON'T GET PEOPLE I'V NOTICE AT MY SCHOOL THEY WHERE SOME GOTHS BUT I DON'T THINK EMO'S MY SCHOOL IS PRETTY GOOD  I CAN'T WEAR BLACK EYELINER lol

they don't tolrate that kind of stuff teasing and everything at my school!

Answer 9

Ok worrying about it and reacting to it infront of them is only fueling the fire. It will just keep happening. I suggest you let that teen attitude come out and use it. There's nothing left to lose now. Is there? Don't take **** from people and your true friends will attract to you. Continue dressing the way you dress. Don't let them win. If you let them win then you become weaker as a person. This coming from a little of experience in this department. I'm a senior in highschool and life is awsome with that attitude and my friends who love me for it.

Answer 10

I'm not sure what to say. I wish we lived in a society where we could solve things with fisticuffs. It's the old way of dueling it, after pistol duels were made illegal.

People are impossible. It took till i was a walking natural disaster of weightlifting and possibilities of conceal weapons before people got off my back. One time threated a guy with a 5 foot section of the half-octagon concrete car-stopper thing over my head to crush him.

If i could solve public idiocy, i would've solved 90% of problems on earth