People are getting to make me conscious about my BF.?

Question

My boyfriend is a year younger than me, but he acts and looks older so I've been pretty much fine with it.

only, people keep hassling me and saying I'm weird and stuff like theirs something wrong with me or I'm sad or i cant get a guy my own age (which isn't true, i just liked this one guy a lot).

now I can't stop thinking about it, its bugging me like mad; I keep thinking: "why can't I have been a year younger" or the other way round or even feeling embarrassed to be around him when he's being silly (which i do a lot).

also, I REALLY miss having him as just a mate its so different now.

we've been together 3 months and a few days.

HELP!!!

do i dump him!?!?

do I just tell everyone to eff off?

IS there something wrong with me?

Answer 1

tell everyone to fvck off.

it's your relationship, what dam business do they have in it?

unless you're gonna marry everyone that disses your bf, you wouldn't/shouldn't care.

Answer 2

I always dated younger guys than me in fact I married a guy who is a year younger than me. Never mind what other people think what's important is who you like and want to be with.

Answer 3

He's just a year younger than you, that's no big deal! If both of you get along really well then that's something you might want to hang on to.  Why listen to others? They're probably just jealous because you've got something that you're really enjoying.  If you dump him because of what others are saying, then you might be looking back a few years from now and think "darn, I shouldn't have let it bother me that much".  If you're taking in what all your friends are saying too personally then perhaps you don't like your BF as much as you think? If you really loved him, it wouldn't bother you one bit.  All the best!

Answer 4

Stop worrying so much about what other people think. They aren't the ones dating your  guy YOU are

Answer 5

that's dumb hes just a year younger who ever hassling you about that must have a pointless life that's the dumbest thing i ever heard!