People call me ugly?? :(:(:( crying?!?

Question

the other day i went to my friends house and she lives nextdoor to a boy in my class and he also had a friend in our year at his house. so we all met up in the garden and chatted. after a while we played that game where someone thinks if a celebrity and you have to ask a series of questions to find out who it is. well instead we did people in our year. when it was my turn (after finding out i was a girl) i asked if i was pretty. my friend (bless her) said yes but the two boys were like 'NOOOOOO'. At the time i didnt know they were talking about me. Soon the boys had to go so we all found out who we were. I realised the boys thought i was ugly and as soon as i left i burst out in tears and had a sobfest with my friend having to comfort me. my friend called they guy that lived nextdoor and told him i was upset and all he said was that it was the other guy too so its not all his fault. later he texted me saying 'im really sorry it wasnt a personal attack so dont take it that way' and i replyed saying '

'its funny cos i have never ever made any sort of comment on how you look and never will cos your not worth my opinion whether its good or bad. just next time your gonna say something rude infront of there face just think how they might feel and how you would feel if you were told you were ugly for NO reaason. its not to great.' and all he said was 'ok.'

after that i felt so much more terrible and ugly and couldnt stop crying. this happened yesterday and im still seriously depressed and havnt eaten since. i feel terrible. what do i do?

Answer 1

Try not to worry about other peoples comments. I know it's hard, I had no friends at your age and was constantly called ugly or freak all because I have a large birthmark on my cheek and was a little over weight because of treatment after my liver transplant. I ignored them and eventually they went away.

The funny thing is those people that teased me were known as the "popular people", you know the ones, the athletic or fashionable ones. I see them now I'm in my mid 20's and some of them are still with the same boyfriends but neither look happy anymore. You see since they left school and stopped all the activities they were doing, they really stacked on the weight too and don't look anything like they did. It's karma. They teased me for looking "ugly" and "fat" now they look like I did then. Now when I see them they look embarrassed, I think they remember what they put me through and the fact that years down the track I now look the way they want to look. So don't worry, just think to yourself that you know you are a good person, which makes you attractive, and that the most attractive person you meet could actually be the ugliest person you know.  Hope this helps you. Good luck.

Answer 2

please don't listen to them! I'm sure it's not true, and I know how it can hurt, but their opinion is not important. when your texted him, I'm sure you wanted him to say ¨he was sorry, but I'm guessing he's a teenage boy, and teenage boys are often insensitive and idiotic. Honestly- it's not important, and it's not true if they said it.  

Answer 3

Evrey person is beautiful in their way maybe you should let us a picture to look at photos maybe you are beautiful .And wait a minute there are stars who were looking .....pathetic.Only time will decied you're beauty mabye you are to young like me (14 years old)

A Simple Advice

-DON'T WORRY-

Answer 4

EVERY ONE IS SPECIAL IN THE EYES OF ALMIGHTY...

let any one not hurt your self esteem

let any one not hurt your self respect...

just remember one thing beauty is skin deep

u r very precious to all your dear ones.......

it's the attitude that determines the altitude of that individual..........

keep smiling..........

Answer 5

IGNORE THOS BETCHES

Answer 6

get over it, if you don't think of yourself as pretty, then your spirit will stay down.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

NOBODY in the world is ugly.Those two boys are jerks.Remember beauty lies deep within and is not determined by the external 'looks'.You are truly beautiful no matter what people say

Answer 9

I'm sure you're beautiful.. don't listen to them..their opinions shouldn't matter.

Answer 10

I know it's hard but try not to let his opinion effect you. Boys can be really immature. At least he did apologize and acknowledge what he did.What matters is what you think :)

Answer 11

Girl, your sms to that guy says it all! That was a very mature thing to tell him, and it just proved what a stupid, immature AND rude jerk he really is! Who cares what he thinks, you'll probably never see him again, and the people who comment on others appearance are themselves really insecure and shallow! Don't bother at all! That loser is probably pretty unpopular with girls anyway, if thats the way he talks!! You're worth waay more than just ur external appearance!!