People criticizing me.help!?

Question

im going back to school n i have gained a lot of weight since the day schools closed for summer holidays. And where i live, everyone criticizes everyone.

I know that they will tell me : 'oh you've gained a lot of weight' or 'oh your fatter' and 'wow how did you end up like this?'

I used to be kind of skinny and a lil popular.

aw i started eating healthy and all since yesterday, but i dont want to rush things cz i know it takes time to lose weight. But how can i face all those shattering comments? for some reason, they have a great impact on me..=/ (happened again some years ago and i got really depressed)

Answer 1

ignore them besides it's your own choice maybe they're just jealous on you.

Answer 2

At least it shows you who your real friends are.

Answer 3

look, your not alone. I know plenty of people who are very sensitive to criticizes. You've jsut got to understand that not everyone in the world is the same. There will be big mouths, nice people, selfish people etc. You get what i mean ? You just need to remind yourself that its life, and your not alone because many people go through your problem too.  

Answer 4

I just want to start of by saying that i heard this so many times. Summer seems to be the time for fun and so what putting on a few pounds is part of that.

anyways i could just say ignore them or don't listen to them, but i been through it, it easier said than done. I would advice u to change up ur style a bit. Where clothing's that are fashionable yet doesn't show the weight u gained. It worked for me until i lost a few pounds  

Answer 5

don't let others opinion affect you,just keep eating healthy,not only to loose weight,it's also good for your body health.being 15 is very hard but don't worry it won't last long.if they keep asking,tell them you just wanted to see what you looked like with a few extra pounds!

Answer 6

dont listen - I know! I did this

1. detach from nasty ppl - i.e dont let ANYTHING ANY ONE SAYS HURT YOU ignore them

2. eat healthy

3. go out with your friends and have fun w/ them - they wont care!

luv

Answer 7

People are cruel especially in high school you just have to decide if you let it affect you or not. Yes it does hurt when people say mean things but honestly if they take the time to talk about you  then they must have a really S****y life and are insecure them selves. Dont sweat if everyone gets made fun of, if people say means things just act like they didnt even say it dont give them the reaction they want. But keep your head high sweetie, working out and chillen with your true friends will make the situation better and meanwhile you will find your loyal friends and s***w everyone else.

good luck

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Answer 8

for the time being just ignore them but continue to be friends.

if not, when you lose weight, you won't have friends if they get angry with you!

they criticize you only a little, this is not as bad as other people.

when you lose weight, that's when you prove them wrong and im quite sure they will stop!

good luck dude!

Answer 9

You have to be able to laugh at yourself! I know it sounds hard but society can be harsh at times and any body type outside the media "norm" will get comments. Just accept that you will get comments and be prepared that way it wont affect you!