People making comments....

Question

i always think people are going to make comments about me when i do a certain thing, and this comment is going to embarres me and im going to get laughed at, whenever i get angry at someone in my school i dont get up and confront them because i think someone else is going to make a comment about me like 'oh you think your hard now' or something...why am i so worried?

Answer 1

sounds like you have self esteem issues. the best way to deal with this is to surround yourself with people who feel good about life. who are not so worried about little things like these. it is important to stand up for yourself when it is worth it, but you must remember not every battle is worth the fight. if these comments are really changing who you believe you are then you should confront people and show them who you are. If you think they are just doing it to bother you then ignore it, but still try to develop some confidence. you have nothing to lose. if this is happening at school, try talking to a counselor, and  try joining groups and events that have to be with school. Meet new people and be confident. You have nothin to lose and if they dont like who you are then there will be some one else who will.

Answer 2

could be mild case of social phobia

or it could just be that your lacking in self esteem

or could just be you are overly sensitive

you could just need a touch more confidence

Answer 3

first of all take care of your self !!!!

read self help books, exercise to make you feel better about yourself.

if people do make comments whats the worst that can happen? a comment is a comment no matter if its good or bad, you cant control what people say or think. stop worrying about others, concentrate on making yourself feel better about yourself. try reading books about subconscious mind and feel yourself with positive thoughts