People say i am childish?

Question

Im 22 but looks like 18. but i behave like 22 itself. but even girls say me childish and they dont like me to behave closely. im fair but dont look good. please help me.... i wanted all to treat me as their level and i want to become handsome.... wat shall i do? kinldly help me out. Best answser will be surely selected.....

Answer 1

You say that you are fair but don't look good. However, I am sure you have at least one good feature. Your eyes maybe, or your lips? Accentuate your best feature somewhat for a little more mature look if you are comfortable with make-up. Some department stores have make-up counters where the attendants will show you how to apply mascara, blush, and lipstick. Also, sometimes becoming more confident of ourselves helps us to carry ourselves more surely. I hope you will learn to appreciate the good things about yourself, focus on your positive traits, and cultivate them. Then others will take notice and treat you as the age you are.

Answer 2

Enjoy your youth. You'll fill out and look older soon enough.

Answer 3

are you trying to say you are not satified with your physical appearance??????

well like the first guy said, enjoy yourself

i know someone who is 21 but looks 16 and acts like a thirteen year old (he is pretty popular)

but thats cause he doesnt care about what other people think

and he is fun to hang out with

so maybe you should try to have fun with what you have

and not try to be something youre not

Answer 4

You say you don't look good?

Sounds like you need to build your confidence up..

There is NOTHING wrong with a childish acting guy unless he's obnoxious.

There's a fine line between the 2.....

For instance, do girls tell you you're childish when you're being flat out stupid and annoying or when you're just doing your everyday walking/talking?

If they simply tell you you're childish when you're just being yourself then I would take that as a compliment. I cannot STAND serious, negative guys.

BUT, if girls tell you you're being childish when you are NOT being yourself, and instead you're being loud or embarrassing for attention then maybe you should just try and alter your mindset to a more mature, focused one.

I personally don't think you should be so worried about that though..

"Childish"? If that was the worst thing about my exboyfriends then I easily could've dealt with that.

I think you should just ALWAYS be yourself :)!

Sowwy for the *long* answer!!!!!

& cheer up. :)