People say that I act black but its not on purpose?

Question

I don't know what to do. I listen to zero rap music. I will admit I have slept with some black chicks and generally get along with black people but thats just because I'm not racist and they were friendly. I try not to put myself above anyone and treat people equally unlike most people who always seem to try and control any situation and put them selves above others but its annoying that people say oh you want to be black when I wear tight a$$ pants and listen to rock music. The biggest reason is when people ask me about my childhood I tell them my family was pretty much working poor and I was raised by a single mother, which is the truth. They think I am trying to be a gangster but that is the childhood I had I cannot help it. Also I am an amazing s**t talker which makes people say oh he is trying to be black. Another thing is I have a really laid back attitude that seems to upset people. It seems like people just want to pick at someone and I am an easy target then if I react negatively they say oh what you are a wanna be gangster but all I want is to be left alone and go to work and have s*x.

Answer 1

That's annoying.  Black is a color not a way of acting.  People tell me I act white.  And it got worse when I married a white man and had his children.  I believe its more you environment.  If you're white and you grow up in the "ghetto" chances are you're going to act imitate you environment.  I grew up in an upper middle class neighborhood and went to private schools my whole life.  It has nothing to do with race its the whole nature versus nurture debate.  People need to get over it and let people be who they are.  

Answer 2

tell them f you and keep doing you..people always have something stupid to say.you cant let their opinion bring you down...

Answer 3

people say I act asian so it's just bizarre

Answer 4

Don't listen to them, just be yourself and surround yourself with people who are not so judgmental. People say I act white haha, but it doesn't bother me, because I know I am just being myself.

Answer 5

don't listen to them. people and their stupid stereotypes. there is no way to "act" black. either you are, or you aren't. it's not a club you can join, so tell those people to shove it, and keep doing what makes you happy.

Answer 6

The next time someone says that to you act black ask them what do you mean when you say I act black. They probably couldn't give you an intelligent answer to that because the truth is there is not specific criteria for acting black or white or any other race or group. As long are your are being yourself is all that matters. Don't change who you are especially over something as unintelligent as that.

Answer 7

you may not think its such a big deal to just randomly have s*x with anybody on such a regular bases. but people never stop to think "what about STDS!!!" how would you feel to live with such a disgusting virus and to look down there and see rashes and bumps and all kinds of fluid you got from someone else. pretty gross.i think its so amazing that for just the sake of 20 minutes of pleasure, people are willing to put their health at risk just for that. if you're going to have s*x that easily, at least go to the doctor and make sure both of you are clean before being a total idiot and just jump in bed in the unknown. its like stepping in an anthill and say "i wont get bitten"

its your life, you can't get people to like you. nobody has ever accomplished that or will ever accomplish that. people will always find something to whine about you or not like about you. its the way the world is. you are who you are and if people can't love you for the way you are then they are a total waste of time.