People say that if a friend never calls or emails unless u do first they dont care about the friendship but?

Question

what if they invite you to their wedding? if they didnt care would they want you there at all?

Answer 1

Just because someone invites you to their wedding doesn't guarantee they care. Where the heck are they all the other times? Real friends don't just contact you when they want to invite you somewhere? And are we forgetting how egotistical people are about their weddings? Some women invite people to weddings simply to fatten the invite list or to get a gift from a so-called friend who is only a friend when this person getting married wants something. I've been present with people setting up their wedding invitations and many women are like, "You know I can't stand her but I'm gonna invite her just to throw it in her face I'm getting married and she's not." Oh yes, vindictive things like this happens a lot. Now, I am not saying this is the case for you but don't think just because you're invited to a function means that person is gonna really care. A lot of times they invite you because people tell them they should!  See how that looks?

A friend is going to be there for you equally. It may not be with calls or emails but this person is gonna be there when you need them and you have that feeling in your heart that you can count on them. Inviting someone to a wedding doesn't mean squat. Plenty women invite people to weddings just to show off their wedding. So I don't know why some people believe this is a true sign of affection.  Maybe in the old days but not now. You gotta observe a person's actions and you can tell who is a true friend and who isn't.

Answer 2

I personally think it depends on how often you guys talk.  If your friend calls you back every time or almost every time you call them, then I think they do care.  I have a friend that is kind of the same way, we talk all the time but I had noticed I did most of the calling.  I had asked her if it wasn't for me calling would we still be friends.  She said she was sorry, but not to take it personal.  She said she has always been that way, but she did care about me and shes just not much of a phone person.

Answer 3

Obviously they do care about you enough to invite you to a wedding. So even though you may not be at the top of their list of priorities, you still must be on the list if you are important enough to attend their wedding. Your wedding day is a really special day and that they want you to be a part of theirs really says something.

Answer 4

THEY SENT U 1 SO U KNOW THEY CARE  IF THEY DIDNT THEY WOULDNT OF EVEN BOTHERED MAILIN IT RIGHT?

Answer 5

Friends have different personalities and priorities in their life so you just remain true to who you are and they will see you care and if they have the time or can take the time to call they will. Friendship should not be based on who calls who first or the most but it should be on trust and honesty and if they break that then they never valued what true friendship is worth sad but so true.

Answer 6

If they only get in touch after you contact them then i think that it means that they don't want anything from you or need your help.  I bet that when they need your help or want somthing from you that they call.  I would just back off and let them do what they want to.  Don't let them walk all over you. x*x