People say they wouldn't approach me? (pic)?

Question

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I'm friendly, but have the sort of personality where someone *usually* has to say hi to me first, not very trusting i guess, i get along with witty/funny/up for a laugh type people, but happy to talk to and be friends with most people..

I don't bother with boys in a relationship sense, coz like i said im not very trusting, so it's not like i'm a sl*g or that type of girl always looking for attention, and i don't walk around with a big F*ck off sign on my face either?? (just to clarify that)

I'm not judgemental, homophobic, sexist, etc,

But i can't seem to get along with girls especially? they always dislike me until they talk to me? Some mates say when they first saw me i looked mean??

Do people really judge on just how you look across the room? Have i just got nasty features or something?

I have a strong personality but it's not like that comes through in my face lol??!??

So why do i get that reaction ...would you talk to me?

(i know i don't look particularly happy on that photo but hey, its the only one with a link, i'm usually in good cheer lol)

Answer 1

you're pretty.

i'm the same way,with the descripton ans stuff.

Answer 2

people judge based on looks, unfortunately.

i have the same problem as you.

you look like you have a unique personality and sounds like you know who you are. people are afraid of that.

i wouldn't worry too much about those people, because they are missing out on getting to know a pretty cool person, it seems. that's really their loss, and i know it is annoying that people are judging you without knowing you, but most people will grow out of it, and get over themselves. until then, just continue doing what you're doing. if people are too afraid to approach you, then that's their loss.

Answer 3

Well you look kinda angry, maybe smile?

Good luck!

Answer 4

your really pretty!

and from your descreption the only thing might make people not approch you is that they usually have to say hi first. they might just feel that since you dont say hi you dont wanna talk to them ya no?

Answer 5

you kinda look like Jennifer love Hewitt!

Answer 6

i would do what i could to talk to you.you don't look mean.your very pretty..8/10

Answer 7

sounds like ur describing me lol...i get the same reaction at first until people talk to me...they feel intimidated and they're afraid that you will shut them down without even so much as a glance, if u know what i mean...i would talk to you, only because you remind me of me lol and i usually get along with people who aren't looking for attention...people are just jealous, you're a pretty girl (you look like jennifer love hewitt in this pic) and people (especially other girls) see that and that guys flock to you and they get jealous, they want the guys to pay attention to them, pretty much they want ALL the attention on them, and hanging around a girl like you won't get them that lol...it's a great thing, don't worry about it, be proud of it, who wants girlfriends who are jealous of their friends? they should be happy for u instead no matter what

Answer 8

I think you might need to smile in pic, and of course, you are pretty. I will love to approach you if I have a chance.

Answer 9

Well first off you are very pretty, and that tends to scare off/intimadate some people. You are just a quite strong type and that does kind of give the impression of "Dont **** with me!!". And you never know those girls might be jealous of you, and I would talk to you, you dont seem like a jerk or rude.

Answer 10

You look depressed and angry, just put a smile on your face & in your eyes. You don't have to say hi, but ask your classmates questions which can escalate into a conversation; therefor they'd know that you're not going to bite their head off. :)

Answer 11

I have the same problem as you, except I've been told that I look like the "ice queen", or mean, bitchy, ect....but I am totally the opposite once you get to know me. Someone once told me that "when you are a young, pretty girl, people will assume you are stuck-up and have things better than everyone else." You are very pretty, so guys are probably intimidated by you. My best advice is to just treat them the same way you would treat a female friend,it will make them feel more at ease. As for girls...I usually just try to be friendly with them, even if they are acting jealous.  

Answer 12

I have the same problem as you. Sadly, people do judge on looks.

I think you're really pretty, but you seem to have a sort of depressed/emo-ish(exuse the stereotyping) look, which can tend to scare people off, since most people are ignorant and judgemental. I just started smiling more and being more outgoing and went up to people and started talking to them myself. =)

Answer 13

Well, I don't know.  I would approach you.  You're very pretty and you seem to have a good personality.  Email me.

Answer 14

we have the same hairstyle. lol

i've noticed that too. its weird.

i can't get along with girls either, they annoy me.

some guys have told me i come off as someone not to mess with too. maybe they're intimidated...who knows. i'll talk to anyone. i can start a random conversation with anyone even if i met them 2 minutes ago.

people do judge other people by their appearance. its almost instinctive.

but you can't let it worry you. as long as people do end up getting to know you, it doesn't really matter does it?

i would talk to you, you seem interesting, and it seems we have the same kind of style

Answer 15

Uh, honestly people, do you see everyone walking around smiling for no apparent reason? That would be really creepy. I don't see why people are always like, "SMILE!?#ONE!!1LOL". o_O Seriously.

Anyway, you're really pretty. I think that's why people are intimidated by you. Just be yourself and you'll be fine. :P I'd personally approach and talk to you.

Answer 16

To be honest, with your description, I might be a little intimidated at first.  Just smile more and don't be afraid to say hello to someone you know. :) A smile can always break the ice with people.

Answer 17

It's just the stereotypical black hair + not smiling = horrible person! Don't feel like you have to smile all the time, you'll just look like a complete loon! I'm like you as i don't tend to start conversations, i'm just c**p at small talk. As long as people like you once they have spoken to you surely that means you are a nice person and people shouldn't judge by how you look anyway :-) x

Answer 18

I'd befriend you.

Answer 19

I understand exactly how you feel people would do that kind of stuff to me. Its sad how people have to judge other people by appearance. To me you don't look mean. I think you just need to smile  

Answer 20

Unfortunately, yes, people will judge you by how you look throughout life, it's just a fact.  I try not to judge people by how they look and would/ will talk to just about anyone.  Yes, I would talk to you.  Also, when your friends said they thought you looked angry when they first saw you?  Let me guess, you were staring off into space?  People just think different facial expressions mean different things.  Anyway, it'd be great to talk to you, message me any time you want.  I don't have a picture of myself though, at least not yet, so you can just imagine, I'm not as pretty as you though.