People talk about Soul mates? So what if your soul mate lives in another part of the world ?

Question

Don't alot of people seem to divorce their soul mates? Does this mean they have more than one?

Answer 1

Soul mate isn't a specific person. It means everyone has an ideal somebody, that they would be perfect with. A certain type of person, with certain personality that they would love, or work off of, or enjoy, their looks are just right for them, they would appreciate each other... etc. Soul mate doesn't have to make sense, people rarely understand what they themselves want, but soul mate is what is truly best for them. Like this girl, I love her, but hate her as a human being, lol.

So yeah, some people have impossible to find soul mates that really are one in 6 billion, while some have easy to find soul mates that could be the girl next door. :D  

Answer 2

First of all, in order to believe in a soulmate, you'd have to believe in a higher power  that is able to determine soulmates, otherwise it's really just all in your head, and there isn't any such thing as having the ability to determine who is the best genetic match. Not to mention the best genetic match may not be the best social match. Yeah I know you evolutionists out there are saying you just contradicted yourself because of all the divorce there is, and I say per our best scientific evidence we've had plenty of time for genetic matches to evolve into the best social matches as well.  

     So with that said, the higher power would then have to see fit to allow the two soulmate's to come together. However, why would this all wise entity do that if one mate may, by thier influence over the other the other whether intentional or not, pull the other away from a loving relationship with the this wise entity. And then the suffering of all eternity is promised to all those who leave this all wise entity for any reason. So I submit that in order for both soulmates to actually find eachother, they must both be likeminded about this all wise entity in relationship with the all wise entity.

     I think it's a little more complicated then that though. I think that only God can determine soulmates, and I don't think it's soulmates that actually come together most of the time. Also, a soulmate can easily become what would be concidered not a soulmate if they are not willing to comprimise and work it out. So in reality I don't think there are soulmates, just people your compatible with, however, I do think God can surpass that which is natural and circumstantial chance, and bring about a one, the one that God had determined from the beggining who should be with who. I have asked for such a thing, therefore God will answer it. I asked that God would have one person selected especially for me since the first twinkle of our creation.

However I will not know for sure that God did so till I die. I will not even know if God determined I should be alone till I die.

But I think most people don't ask God for that special one, nor do they serve him so that the special one would benefit spiritually from the relationship. So I think what happens is most people just take it upon themselves to determine if someone is thier soulmate without actually submitting themselves to what God has said, and that person may or may not be  the one God intended.

But this I will tell you for sure, once you say I do, it no longer matters who God intended initially, God now intends on the one you said I do to. God now intends on that one being your soulmate and no other, and God made this clear that He hates divorce, therefore you know that you must now see her or him as your soulmate.

Also about soulmates, nothing says that a soulmate has to feel love always, nor does it say a soulmate will remain faithful, nor does anything say a soulmate won't change.

A soulmate is only one that is brought together within the individual submission to God of one's determinations concerning thier relationship, and/or the continual action that is derived from commitment that continually seeks comprimise and sacrifice for the sake of relationship for the purpose of staying together.

Without the second part, you will never last, and the first part will strengthen the second part by leaps and bounds.

Answer 3

Internet brings the 2 parts of the world together

Also if you beleive in Fate bringing 2 people together then more than likely that's your soul mate.

I think people divorce their soulmates because they are 2 lazy to try and work things out, just because they are soulmates doesn't mean they won't have problems.

Answer 4

I think that term soul mate is grossly overrated, and limiting. There are any number of people whom one might choose to love who aren't necessarily "soul mates."

Answer 5

Life is amazing isnt it? out of the millions and millions of potential partners around the globe , the vast majority have miraculously found their soul mate within a 50 mile radius of where they live . Gosh, think about those odds.

Answer 6

i agree with yamnnjr

he speaks the truth (cold and hard truth when necessary too)

it's a great answer

Answer 7

I would learn his language!