People think bad things about me i want to change how they think when i come into school on the first day?

Question

please help me i dont want a bad rep

Answer 1

The thing is that you can never change what other people think. You can show them who you really are, you can talk to them, you can give them all sorts of opportunity to change their minds but if they want to be ignorant and mean, they will be. You can only ever work to change your own emotions and actions.

School is hard for a lot of people. People can be petty and cruel. People who feel bad about themselves often try to make themselves feel better by hurting someone else. Even the ones who seem popular and happy are afraid of people turning on them, or are actually insecure about themselves. A lot of adults think school is great; because compared to working in a job you dont like every day, spending all your money on bills, fixing up where you live, worrying about getting older and taking care of other people - it does seem great. But a lot of adults look back on their school years and say "I wouldn't do that again if you paid me!"

Maybe picking up a new interst or activity will put you in touch with some new kids who aren't so nasty and are a little more mature.

Good luck and hang in there!

Answer 2

What do people think about you now?

In response to additional details:  You really just need to be yourself. If people don't see you as they are, they're not going to no matter what you do.